I think i may be gay/lesbian? ?
Like I really do think so but at the same time I'm like in denial and confused. I'm confused because while yes I find some guys highly attractive, but guys just can't turn me on sexually and idk whenever i have sex with a guy I just want it to be over with. While girls on the other hand can turn me on sexually no problem. I thought for awhile that I was bi but now I'm thinking maybe I'm gay? What do you all think? Its hard for me to be objective cause of my fear of what my homophobic family will think. And please no homophobic or smarta** remarks.
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I feel you dude, sexuality is such a complicated thing. I wish it were easy to completely put yourself in one category that completely describes you. But its not that easy.
To figure out the real you, and get past that awkward denial stage, you have to take out all other affecting variables to truly figure out yourself.
Atm forget about your homophobic parents, forget about homophobic thoughts and people, and just concentrate on yourself.
Ask yourself what your really want.
First you don't have to make a big official decision. Just try being with different PEOPLE and see how it goes. You are dating people, not genders or labels. Maybe you're bi, maybe you're just exploring. Does it really matter? As for your homophobic family, again no need for big announcements. Your private life is private. Keep it that way for now.
sounds like you are bi!