I have talking to this guy online for almost 2 months and I enjoy talking to him. When we first started talking, I lied to him, were I live about my identity, my age and who I am. Everything that I told him was made up. I also sent him fake pics.i know we have no future together since i also lied about were I live. He lives in London and he is planning to move to America in a year were he thinks I live. I actually live in Canada
However, it progressed further than what I thought so we ended up talking every night. He always tell me that I am beautiful so I don’t know how he is going to react when he finds out that I am not the girl on the pic that I sent him. In fact, I look totally opposite from what she looks like. She has blonde hair and blue eyes but I have dark hair and dark eyes. This it the first time I ever did this to anyone and I am not going to do it again. I will be honest about who I am if I will ever chat with someone online again. Anyways, I decided to come clean to him but I am nervous since I don't know how is going to take the bad news. I haven't been online for 2 days so when I just logged in today, he left me a message asking why I have been online and he really missed me.
I busted in tears when I saw that message since I am planning to come clean to him tonight. I am going to hurt him and he doesn't deserve that.
How would you react?
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I did something similar once, although I didn't take it quite as far as you did. And I totally get your nervousness. However, what's working in your favor is that it's only been 2 months. Even if you talked every night, this isn't a very long time and if he was genuinely planning to move across an ocean after chatting with someone online for 2 months, this is really stupid, to be a bit blunt. And that assumes it's true to begin with, which we don't know for sure.
So basically he's either way too naive and trusting, in which case this should be a valuable lesson for him, or he was messing around as much as you've been.
My other advice is to keep this as short and simple as possible. In fact, it might be a better idea to avoid chat altogether if you have an email addy for him (I assume your chat login is bogus). You can tell him what you want, apologize for misleading him, and then tell him the best thing to do is for you to remove him from your chat contacts. This isn't taking the chicken way out - it's just that there's not anything else to be said, nor is there anything to be gained by a long chat about it. You're both just pixels to each other, and you both need to move past this.
The only logical way: come clean. He is going to find anyway if he indeed comes to America :)
So, just tell him, and you may have a chance, but be prepared to never see him again, since no takes this big of a lie lightly.
I answered your question yesterday, and I'm glad to read that you are going to finally be honest with him. Again, just be careful. He may or may not be who he's pretended to be.
oh god stop your whining.. how old are you?? you are never going to meet him anyways so who cares. just block him and start talkin to someone else.
Technically, you are dating a computer screen. He may not have been any more honest with you than you have been with him.
I'm glad that you have decided to come clean with him. We will be ready when he writes in to find out why you deceived him. Good luck.
Make sure you let him know that you were protecting yourself because there are so many weirdos out there, but that you feel that he is decent and you want him to know the truth. Tell him it's because you really like him and with the New Year, comes a new opportunity to start fresh.
NIce thing about online stuff, it's easy to move on. Just tell him. He will be fine. He may not want to talk to you any more but oh well. He deserves to know the truth.
how do u know that he ist lying
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