hello!
So I met this guy and we really like each other. We have been spending a lot of time with each other. Tonight we went to the beach, had sodas, and watch shooting stars. He kissed me, but I only allow cheek kisses, which is fine. But the problem is...he is so attractive, physically fit and just wonderful. He and I both have great personalities and we make each other laugh and we always have something to talk about. We really hit it off. Trouble is that I am pretty overweight...I still have womanly curves but I am chubby. But he still wants to hang out with me and call me beautiful. I feel fat with him though. I can't believe such a great looking guy likes me. But also, he keeps wanting to do things with me like go swimming or cliff diving/jumping. Physical activities. I can't do those things that well. He loves doing daring activities. I'm embarrassed to be in a bathing suit near him. Should I feel bad? I told him I am sort of scared of an under current and so I am nervous about being in water. It was a small lie but I really don't want him to see me in a bathing suit or doing other physical activities. Please don't say,"oh just loose weight...." because I know this and I am trying, but it's kind of hard when this is all happening this week. I would really appreciate helpful advice. Thanks friends <3
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If he came this far, I don't think hes gonna turn around and just leave when he will see you in a bath suite :)
Just do these activities with him, the ones you can and feel most comfortable with. If you will keep denying him he "might" think that you don't want to spend time with him. Or just talk to him.. tell him you would be embarrassed, or shy or just your problem with those activities, and you might sort it out together.
Oh a lot of guys like chubby girls and their curves. So.. :)