Everytime I am around him, my voice gets so low that I am barely audible, and I'm such a spaz!! What can I do to show him that I'm not as weird as he may think? (i don't KNOW that he thinks this, but I kinda think he has a right to, Because of my nervousness i make a fool out of myself when he's around. I mean BIG TIME...) Any advice?
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hahaha sorry, this is kind of what happens to me when i'm around the guy who i really like. My voice cracks (from yelling to quiet) and i act really wierd and anxious. Well anyway what i usually do is just calm myself down by taking deep breaths and think about something else and not think about him. What helps is look around and think about other things, other than him, which can be hard when your near him- i know.
i doubt he thinks you're crazy just because you have a low voice! when you see him, take a few deep breathes to calm yourself down. he's just another human being! you don't need to be so nervous hunnie! think of this when you see him, he goes to the bathroom, he is not perfect, he is a human being! don't be nervous! good luck! be yourself! if he doesn't like you for who you are (even if you ARE weird or NOT), then he's not right for you.
Okay, breathe in and out everytime you see him. Say to yourself, I'm not nervous, I'm not nervous. Okay, that only works for some people.
Find out what interests him, and zero in on that. Men like to talk about themselves and for women to listen in amazement. Listen to something he says and relate it to yourself. That way you're showing him you two have something in common. Look your best, give him that wide eyed look and compliment him. Laugh at his little jokes even if they're not funny. Men like that crap.
Well I tend to make a fool outta myself around my crush. But I don't get quiet I get really loud.
if u are around him alot then act ur self! if u made a fool of ur self when u are around him then go up to him and tell him that u are not crazy. if he thinks that u are still crazy then tell him that he is crazy. then see what he says.
any advice, yes. tell him you like him and ask to spend some alone time with him. once you get to know him better, you'll become a lot braver. i guarantee it
i think you are crazy too. haha, just kidding. i think you are just nervous around this guy. eventually that will go away. just give it time. and relax! :)
be cool, calm, and collective when around him. just take deep breaths, think about your actions, and play it cool.
try talking to him online... does he have myspace/facebook/etc?
Holy **** girl, what are you on?