help! guy trouble.?
i cant get him off of my mind.
everything reminds me of him.
the teddy bear i gave him and took back.
a song on the radio.
all of my clothes.
the weather.
my birthday.
the summer.
just driving down the road makes me think of him.
what do i do.
he broke up with me 2 months ago.
how much longer until i will stop feeling this way?
i wish it would go away.
i wish i could just make myself stop loving him.
but it is so hard.
how have you coped with your breakups?
is it supposed to be this painful??
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i might be a guy... but listen to what i have to say...
Here's the way i feel about it. You have so much of your life ahead of you... He was only one guy... Whats meant to be will happen and whats not won't... obviously he doesn't want you so there is no sense you staying stuck on him. you need to get out there and find the right man for yourself... don't try to "replace" him and you don't have to "forget" him because i'm sure you will never find another guy like him... but thats the thing... you don't have to, and you don't need to.
Obviously he was not the right person... go find the man that IS.
when my girl left me, iwas devasted... but thats when i realized that it was a good thing she did because obviously it wouldn't have worked out and i would have hated to waste any more time on just her when i could be spending time finding the right one...
your life didn't "end" when he broke up with you so neither should your future.
good luck! love hurts i know! but thats part of life! don't dwell n your misery... honestly if you are even reading this you shouldn't you should be too busy having a life to worry about the past.
im currently dealin wit the same thing!! n my logic is time!! i am still in love wit diz boy!! n obviously u are 2!! i think u need 2 let him kno how u feel!! it seems like u didn't want the relationship 2 b over!! n u kno wat they say "if u love somethin u got 2 let it go.....n if it comes bac it means so much more....but if it never does then atleast u will kno it was somethin u had 2 go through 2 grow" sweety everything happens fo a reason!! time will play a major role in wat u are goin through!! i listin 2 music 2 cope wit a breakup n just cry!! sometimes i cry fo hours!! but in the end im glad i let all the frustration n anger n pain out!! itz better 2 let it out!! n the good thing is nobody has 2 kno u cried!! good luck sweety!!
it reallty dependes on how close you were,. yes sometimes i can take more than 3 months and all you gotta really do is talk about it with someone. Concentrate on something new distract yourself with activities, housework or friends or just random stuff, it may help you get your mind off him. And rememeber you miss him becuase you loved him, so you can't really blame yourself for this can you?
It's definitely painful. It all takes time, you can't just wake up one morning and say ''I won't love him anymore.''