i was in love with this guy last year but i moved about 8 months ago and have not seen him in about 8 months but i just cant get over him he has a gf and everything but i still think about him all the time is there anything i can do to help me move on
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i get where yer coming from. I'm still having that problem. ya, i'm a little young but i truely thought i was in love as i thought he was in love with me and he broke my heart. that was about 3 months ago and i still can't get over him.
i'd suggest getting another guy, trying to meet new people. it's hard to get over someone. if that doesn't help then try to focus on the more important things in life. keep yourself occupied with a hobbie or fun activities to keep you from thinking of him.
The best thing you can do is to first realize that your relationship with him is ended and that he has a girlfriend and does not want to be associated with you anymore. Think of him shunning you and just wanting you to go away and get out of his life. As long as you think of him knowing it is over you are giving him power to control your life in the way you think and the actions you take. Don't let anyone control your life like this. Be confident in your own abilities and know that you deserve better than him and don't settle for anything less than some guy who meets your standards and criteria. By doing this you will remove him from your mind and be able to move on yourself.
As hard as it is:
Realize that life moves on and that there's most likely someone a bit better out there. Besides, don't just hang on to one guy all your life. Date around -- best if you're at least 16 -- because you don't know what you've missed until it's too late. Life moves on. Not only move with it -- move ahead.
This might sound weird but tell him everything. I know he has a girlfriend but maybe if you get everything off you chest about him then it will help you feel better.Or you can wait for "Mr.Right" to come around so you wont even have time to think about him. Or just remember all the things that pissed you off about him and that should help. Good Luck!
well, since he has moved on, i guess you should move on too!!
join more activities, like a club or help out in an organisation. widen your social network, that way you will meet more people, not to mention guys. there would be one who will catch your eye, i'm sure.
people can fall i love everywhere!! :) meanwhile, if u cant get him out of your head, busy yourself with something. it could be schoolwork, projects, some interests like a sport or hanging out with friends. good luck! :)
just move on, you moved away theres nothing you can do now and if he has a gf now then whats the point? take my advice and forget about him.
you must have really cared for him....8 months is a long time to be apart...and usually you'd be over him by now...I'd love to tell you to date other people and you'll be fine, but it might make it worse....you might compare people you date to him, and that would make you want to be with him even more....so, my advice is try and occupy your time with fun things....and spend alot of time with your friends....this is going to sound really lame, but can you get a pet....that might help too.....
best of luck :)
meet new people try dating try to move on, you will find someone soo much better i am so sure. try something new, but always remember to be yourself!! Dont change for something or someone... Just wait it out and ocupy yourself with these new things.. think positive, dont dwell, it will get better I Promise
my best advice to you would be to move on and find someone else...better.... but if you still can't get over him talk to him on the phone...by chat... texting...or face to face communication...your choice... and tell him how you feel and see if he feels the same way.... this might take alot of guts but its probably the best thing to do in your postition.....
wow... are your initials M.M??? U sound like my friend! lol... Yes the answer is: u of course WILL think of him but just try to look at the other guys!