Okay so I am going to a new catholic school for 8th grade and am on the cheer team. I met some girls @ the school from cheer so ya.
HERES THE STORY...
yesterday I went with my mom to the uniform store to pick up my school uniform. I was sitting with my mom and this lady and her son (that is going to be in my grade) walk up to us and introduce themselves. His name is mitchell and he was kinda acting wierd and shy. He was HOTT! but he was really nice. My mom and his mom talked for a while and she said he was going to the SAME SCHOOL AS ME AND SAME GRADE!!! He was one of the nicest guys ive ever met.
I KNOW THIS MAY NOT MEAN ANYTHING SO DONT RESTATE IT!
HOW DO I KEEP IT COOL SO HE MIGHT ASK ME OUT???
-God bless-
Update:OH AND THIS IS SOOO IMPORTANT!
How do i flirt
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be yourself! don't over think or worry that you'll mess up because that's all that you'll be thinking about when you talk to him again, just be yourself, make him laugh and hangout with him once n a while, don't over obsess him by talking to him every time you see him keep it cool dont act too interested and flirt ;)
Just take things slow. That's the problem with people these days; rush rush rush lol omg I sound like a nag xD
I'm serious, though, you're a young girl. You have a long life ahead of you so you shouldn't rush with things. Chill. Take things as they come. If he likes you, then that's cool. If he doesn't like you, then that's cool too, coz you have plenty of time to look for someone else.
You keep it cool by treating him like your friend. Not so much to the point that you become 'one of the guys' but just enough to the point that he'll think he has a chance with you. Don't act too coolly with him otherwise he'll think you don't like him and don't act too eager for him; he'll most likely think you're creepy lol
As for flirting, well, that's my specialty :-D
I often get accused of flirting with someone when, really, I'm just trying to be nice to them. So if you really want to flirt, you should try being super nice to him. 'Course, you could also try some subtle body language like running your hand through your hair or licking your lips. Don't do it too often, though; you'll look weird.
You should try flirty jokes too. Like, jokes with hidden meanings. Not sick, sex-related jokes or anything; that's crude. I use flirty jokes a lot and it's so effective. I've even got this one guy going after me and he has a girlfriend. I keep my distance, of course, and, to be fair, I didn't know he had a girlfriend till I added him on facebook xD
Slow down, you have to get to know him and be friends before he just willingly askes you out. You said he was being shy so chances are he isn't gonna ask you out on the spot. I'd suggest become good friends maybe flirt a lil and see how it goes :] Good luck!
Just be yourself - up to and including possibly asking him out.
just be yourself