herrlo... ok to all who have answered a previous question on this matter thanks, and pls read this one!
ok so... i like this guy, he likes me.. (yeah!) but he isn't aloud out till after xmas, cos some stuff happened.. but even after xmas he only alowed out to the cinema(rarely), and has to study a lot.. cos we've got exams this year.. then after our exams in june, hes alowed out properly, like to discos etc... he said he'd ask me out after our exams, because he feels like he'll let me down, if he does now, because he cant meet up with me...
this girl came to our school from america last year, and he went out with her while she was here, he says now, that the only two girls hes ever liked properly are me and that girl.
so lets say i wait to july,.. but im going to france, and guess whos coming back to here to Ireland? That girl, so perfect..
ok then so august, im going to the gaelthacht(irish college) and he is too.. so 3 weeks with him(yeah)..
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Update:oh this girl is from america... so she will only be here for a month and gone back again... yes this guy does genuinely like me..
shud i tell him how i feel?!
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Well I would have to say that there are a lot of obstacles in the way of your potential relationship. I would say it depends on how much you like him and how much you perceive him to like you. Does he give you the idea that the other girl is the perfect girl? If so then I would shy away from this gentleman and wait him out. Maybe you could remain friends with him through the summer and just see how it all plays out? I think then you will have an idea of whether this other girl is a potential competitor for his affection. If you wait it out you can still be friends and do things with him. It is very important that your not too pushy though. You will definitely scare him away and "weird" him out. Guys want the girl that they can't have so sit in the background and be his friend through the summer. I know this will be hard but if you can do that I think you have a shot. The obstacles are many but if it is meant to be it will be, if not it will be a good learning experience. I am assuming you are fairly young and remember you are going to meet many more men in your lifetime. If it was me personally I would let this guy go but I also have 34 years of experience and hindsight to look back on. In your shoes I would have waited. Good luck.
ok its all about how much u like him u say u like him alot wait as long as u can until u cant wait no more. as for that girl coming back let her come back if he really likes u he wouldnt go out with her while she's there.