help boy trouble!!!!!!!!!?
i am having big problems!?last year at camp i went out with a guy only to find out he was cheating on me:( i think he still likes me, sometimes i think about him and wonder if i still have feelings for him, i want to say something but i think it will be really weird because i dont want him to no that i still like him because i will get hurt again please help me!!!!(i need it)
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I think you should take baby steps. If you leap too far and say to him that you like him, you might fall and get hurt. If you don't leap you will always wonder what could have been.
Instead try and just start talking to the guy. Bond with him and just have good and genuine talks. When you feel like that indeed he is a good person for you, and you have reassured your thoughts on that he likes you back, THEN you can ask him.
It will require a lot of patience but you have to remember that he did hurt you. Relationships are designed so that YOU invite the other person into YOUR life. If he cannot bring anything to the table besides pain and suffering into your life then you do not deserve that. So by talking to him and just...knowing him you can learn a lot.
You have two choices:
(1) Go out with this cheater, and get hurt.
(2) Move on with your life and find happyness.
Which do you think is best?
if you really have feelings for him, tell him. What's the worst that can happen? Besides if you don't, you'll ask yourself what if. And I know it will still hurt if he cheats on you but you have to be expecting and forgiving.