My boyfriend was almost perfect, but then he started being a real b*tch to me. He didn't respect me at all, he screamed at me, and it seemed like he didn't care about me, even my family noticed. When I asked if he wanted to break up, he was like no I love you. I've been seeing this really great guy for like two weeks now. But, not too long ago, my boyfriend apologized for everything and said he was going to change, and he actually has. I don't want to stop what me and Samuel have going, but I don't want to break up with my boyfriend. I don't want to break up with my boyfriend because what if I'm just someone Samuel can mess around with, even though he really doesn't seem like that. He's really respectful. I really don't know what to do ....
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I think that you should go with your heart, if you truly love your boyfriend then go back with him. I know I don't totally understand your situation but if someone treats you bad then maybe they don't truly love you, but I could be wrong because people do change.
Okay let's assume you think they're both great. But who is your other half? I don't mean the guy you wanna walk around school or make out with. I mean the one that calls you out on your bullshit but still loves you- and you love him back. You can tell him his issues and he'll understand. The one that calls you for no particular reason and talks for hours. Then when you're done you forgot whatever you were crying about. and he knows it. The one you can break up with and all they can help to do is make sure your new boyfriend treats you well. Which one is that guy to you?
Well the guy you were seeing was not suppose to happen. You were cheating on your boyfriend and even if your boyfriend was a real dick you still weren't suppose to cheat. And since he changed and he's your real boyfriend you should stay with him. Forget the person you chated with just go with your boyfriend now.