So this boy named "C" asked me to hc and I said yes (as friends). He is a freshmen and I am a junior so the age difference is pretty large. I have had a major crush on his friend who is a junior like me named "J" and they are like best friends. I know C wants to ask me out but I really just want to be friends with him. J told me he liked me and he knows I like him but C doesnt know anything about it. What should I do? I could tell C that I just want to be friends but then I dont wanna turn around and date his best friend. I dont wanna hurt anyone
I dont wanna bring C and J against each other, its not worth ruining a friendship
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If C likes you that much he'll be happy as long as you're happy, date J but tell C you mean no harm and wanna be friends
tell "C" that two years is to long and that you should just be friends because of that. Now for "J" you could tell "C" that he is closer to your age so that you have more to relate to and that you wouldn't ruin the relationship between them you would probably strengthen it by making them umm whats the word uh "compete"? over who dates you first
Tell C that you just want to be friends, give it sometime, then date J. By then C will probably have found someone new. Hope this helps! (: