My mum works at this hotel & is friends with the head chef, I go to work with her sometimes & the first time i saw & talked to him i instantly liked him and would love to go out with him but i thought no chance. Well yesterday they'd finished work and we was all stood in the bar having a few drinks. ya know when you like some one and you sorta keep tryna look at them? (i tried not to make it too obvious lol) well yeah i noticed he kept looking at me & then he started messing around..tickling me & stuff.
Well we moved on to another pub & i was stood next to him and he put his arm round me asking if i was alright & rubbing his hand up & down my back. I went & sat down & eventually he came and sat next to me and asked for my number, i gave him it and he said we'll have a chat and stuff and see how it goes, he said he liked me and put his hand on my leg. He spent the rest of the night with his tongue down my throat and his arms around me, always hugging me & holding my hand & saying he liked me since the first time he saw me.
He said he was going to take me out for a meal next week & stuff like that...we went outside and he hugged & kissed me and then said will you be my girlfriend, i said yeah obviously lol
My mum warned him that if he hurt me and was just after sex she'd hurt him & he said no im not like that, id never think of doing that, i want to take it slow and get to know her.
He left early to get a taxi with me because i wanted to go home, when i got to my house he kissed me & said he would come see me tomorrow(today)
Well he didn't come see me and ive had no phone call or text....does he actually like me or was it just the 'beer talking' & kinda like a one night stand sorta thing?
Update:He is older than me, but i thought with him been scared of my mum after her warning him lol that he wouldnt be just after a one night stand but if thats the case then ive made a complete 'tit' out of myself infront of my family & looked a complete 'slag
Its sure going to be awkward going to work with my mum if thats all he was after :/
Answers & Comments
It is only my opinion, since I do not know either one of you. But yes, it does sound like that. He sounds older than you. The back rubbing, etc, all sounds like he wanted a one nighter. Someone that does the straight out physical so quick is not after love. You just have to figure out if you are.