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The hard part is that he does this for no reason. There has to be a reason other wise he wouldn't of broke up with you. I wonder how old you both are?

The best thing is that time heals all. Delete the emails, hang out with your best friend(s). Find something that you can do that will make your soul feel better. Volunteer at a shelter, something to distract you. It might be a good thing he did it now, and not get married and 20 yrs later. The man your really meant to be with is probably around the corner. So enjoy being single for now. You don't need to be with someone that is like that, do you?

I'm also sure having no closure doesn't help. So write him a letter and tell him how you feel about everything. Send it, and when you send it, that is your closure...you've gotten it off your chest. Don't give him another thought....enjoy life we only get one shot at it...Good Luck

Well first of all u seem like a very sensitive person and that is a good quality in a woman. You just need to look deep inside your heart and see all the good qualities that u were blessed with. Now that you have done that you know that any guy would be lucky to have ur heart. Now its just a matter of letting yourself let go and allowing a new guy to come into ur heart . This is the guy that will deserve what that other guy took for granted. Its not easy letting go but the human heart is very strong and if u allow it to heal it will heal.

Also you have taken a good first step by talking about it in here. You are on the path to healing:)

Sorry you are going through this...you will be OK after some time and space are put between you and this breakup.

Go to www.futureme.org and write yoruself a letter with all your feelings - and have it delivered to you 6 months from now. When you get this letter, you'll see how far you've come!

Next, set some new goals for yourself and start working on them. This will give you focus and leave you no time to re-read all the emails, etc. How are your finances? Should you open an account at ETrade and start learning about the stock market? How's your health - good time to go on a diet or sign up for the gym.

New opportunities are waiting for you right outside yoru door -start thinking about what you want to do, get dressed and go do it.

That's called moving on!

Best wishes.

I know exactly where you're coming from and I hope you'll feel better, I had the same problem. First of all, delete the e-mails, they will hold you down, you don't ave to forget, but try to tone it down. Next, don't make excuses for his old behavior (one of my worst mistakes) or else you will find yourself an emotional wreck like I did. Try to find something like a hobby (painting, drawing, swimming, biking, etc.) to keep yourself occupied, get a friend to join you so you can talk to someone. After you've pretty much gotten over him, start looking around (but don't be pushy) try to be fun and flirty. Y oudon't have to start a relationship right away,just try to have fun to get back in the swing of things and show people your not hung up over the old guy and your happy and willing to flirt. Possibly get yourself some new goals,like places you want to go, foods you want to try, movies you've always wanted to see, make a list of them, and do them, either with a friend(s) or by yourself (that helped me a lot) Good luck I hope I helped out, if you want you can E-Mail me by going to my page.

A good place to start is to get rid of all those old emails. The only purpose they serve is to get you worked up again. The best thing you can do is try to find other activities that will perk up your spirits - like hang out with friends, and then just give it time. There isn't any magical trick you can do to get over him other than to accept that it's over, that it's for the best, that there is better out there for you, and then just give it time. Just don't torture yourself by trying to figure out what you did wrong because it isn't worth it. Sometimes two people just aren't meant to be together. Your relationship lasted for the time it was meant to last and now your life is on a different path. Think of that and look forward to the future. Good luck.

Delete the e-mails... everything that reminds you of him...throw in a shoebox and put it in a hard to get to storage space. Then get back out there..hang out with your closest friends, don't feel sorry for yourself, try to met other guys. And remember, guys are like buses, one comes every 15 minutes. This dude isn't worth remembering or beeing hurt over if he broke up with you for no reason, and that should be enough to move on from.

Delete the emails so you can't look at them anymore. Hang out with friends. You sound like a very kind, very mature person and I have little doubt that you will find someone even better! By the way, my girlfriend dumped me six months ago and I can say with a fair bit of certainty that it's not any easier for a guy. I feel for you. take care.

Find out the truth and talk to him.

Sub-consciously, you're still probably pretty confused as to why he broke up with you...hence you can't quite get over him yet. So see what's up, hopefully the truth will help clear you mind.

Also, spend some time alone and with friends. Meet new people, whether they be boys or girls. Be open-minded and generally positive about things.

Hope this helps a little.

Find someone else.. Like someone that would cope with you. You should go out with your friends and do things that take your mind off of him.. trust me you will get over this guy.. I had a crush on a guy for like 3 years and I got over him...how? I liked another guy. Just move on.. He's not vital anyways.

first thing u should do is "delete those mails" u will feel much better afterwards ... just get a makeover and go to spa u will feel MUCH BETTER .. and just get over this cuz i just want to let u know there is always someone out there waiting for u.. it just might take some time to find him