This kid who's younger then me, im a senior and he's a freshman is in my cooking class and he has a really weird attitude. Like i'll see him staring at me but he can be kinda rude sometimes. i like his friends more they are much nicer but it sometimes it seems like he thinks he owns the world cause he made varsity on some school sport and is just such a wonderful popular person and everyone obviously loves him. if you get my drift. sometimes he can be cool and nice and funny to me, but then like when i said hi once he just said said hey in a rather rude and angry tone. its as if he's annoyed with me sometimes but he'll still stare at me. And of course he'll show off and all but when he's not in this weird phase of his, you know trying to be cool and popular by acting like he doesn't care about the world, he can actually be quite nice. And once i said he had pretty eyes and he smiled and put his head down blushing. So what do i do?
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He probably likes you.
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what superpower would you choose to have?
Go for someone your own age? Actually, I like younger guys... but I don't think guys a fully mature until their early 20s. I am 27 so for me to like some one 23-24ish is okay- hopefully they are mature by then. But a guy who is still 14/15- he still has some growing up to do- ya know?
He's got the hots for you, as indicated by the staring. The rude or angry tone is a defense mechanism. I say, if you want to be chums (or more) keep interacting with him. His guard will fall.
Well first you have to ask youself...do i want a relationship with him? If he's a jerk now he may be a jerk in the relationship, but he may not. Also if you have problems with his attitude, tell him how you feel and if his ego doesn't get in the way, lol, it will turn out to be a better situation for the both of you.
He's obviously quite immature and into himself. I would just treat him with respect and be friendly like you would to any kid in class and move on.
are you saying you want to ask him out or something? cuz if yuo are then let him come to you. hes being mean cuz he probly likes you or thinks your pretty. idk. it seems weird but it happens to me all the time. dont go chasing him or he'll run away. then he will hate you. trust me. this just happened to me like 2 weeks ago. maybe just ignore him and act like he isnt even there and see if he tries to get your attenion or be nicer to you.
Well it depends on what you want to happen next. It kind of sounds like you like this kid. Or is it that you just want him to leave you alone? I can't tell what you want from your question, so its kind of hard to give you any suggestions.
hmm if youre hot joining together wont really be a problem but please focus on more important things rather than a freshman especially since you are a senior ha ha
good luck with the younger immature guy!@
make sure he's not gay, too.
i make the EXACT SAME mistake, same situation. cooking class, freindly,s taring, and then rude....he was gay.
good luck.
if u like him go 1 step at a time and if u dont tell him ur not interested