Guy Trouble?
Okay so I am with this guy, and he is totally amazing but in some ways he makes me worry. I talk to him every day (well almost) and I get to see him on weekends, but he goes out and parties with his guy friends at clubs and then when he comes back we have incredible sex. But I smell the scent of perfume one him and it makes me worry that I'm not the only girl that he has been up close. I have seen his ex girlfriends and they are super model hot, and I am a 5'9" 170 lbs, woman. So I can't help but wonder is he pity f*cking me?
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I cannot help but wonder why you choose to be with a guy that you have to wonder if he is with you out of pity. Girlfriend, pick your self respect off the floor and understand that men will only do to you what you let them get away with ! And if you don't think that you are a good catch then neither will he, start loving yourself and maybe you won't need to worry anymore.
Dah! It is obvious that his priority here is partying. He may love you and you may love him but at this stage of the game it sounds like he is to insecure to commit. He has a need to be with other girls to boost his self confidence (ego).
I think you are smart enough to see the writing on the wall. Sex is great, OK. What else is there?
If sex is great and that is all there is to you relationship and your fine with that, hey "ENJOY". But it sounds like you want more out of this relationship. You can ask him how he feels, but be prepared, he may run, but he'll return again and again for the sex if you let him.
Be careful, sometimes love hurts.
maybe you should go to the clubs and stuff that he goes to and sorta spy...if he gets wasted, keep and eye on him at all times and if he's w/ another girl...DUMP HIM!! it'll be hard to do being that you probably like him alot but you know...Tough Love...he'll deserve it...â£good luckâ£
have someone spy on him 4 u