I have a major crush on this one guy at my school. The thing is me and him grew up together ever since preschool so he thinks of me as just a really good friend. Also he keeps on going on and off with this new girl at school. He ocasionaly trys to flirt with me ( i think ). And last time during their breakup he came up to me and hugged me. Then the next day i turned around at school and he tried to slap my ***. Does this mean he likes me??? If not what can i do to get him to like me without me looking desperate????
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yes, I think he has feelings for you, but it sounds like he's confused about what they are! You've been good buddies since you both were wearing Pampers? LOL. Then you've already got a solid friendship going, which is a big plus if you're thinking about turning things romantic. He might be going through the same feelings you are, maybe he's afraid you'll reject him if he reveals his feelings for you. Hugging you and trying to slap your a** is not a platonic thing... Wait for him to clear things with this other girl first. If you want him to start looking at you in a different light, show your independence and be confident about yourself. Don't let him use you to solve girl problems only to have him play games with your head when they get back together. Just be yourself and leave some space between you and him - girls who are too available are not attractive to any guy, whether he's a friend or a crush.
Good luck!
Well you don't have to wear some skimpy outfit for a
guy to like its known as trying too hard. You said he slapped
your ***, but just know you don't have to give up anything
to make a guy like you. You said he known since preschool so he probably know you more than most of your friends, he knows what kind of person you are, so he'll know if you're the right one. It might take time for him to realize that you might just be his girlfriend. Have a friend talk, make sure that the conversation is very serious.
Just know you have standards.
Best of Luck
yeah, get looking like a little hottie school girl with the little skirt and tell him "lets go do something together", that should do it and say, "oh, by the way dont try to slap my A** again or I 'll punch you." and hit him lightly in the gut ..and run.. It WILL work, I guarantee..if it doesn't then he is clueless, but it doesn't sound like it..soo
have fun!
You are in the 'friend zone' for far too long.....Really hard to get out of this....He likes you, that's for sure......but not romantically i think, at the moment at least.....That thought most probably never entered his mind....I am sure you haven't given out any signals like that being scared of rejection and everything.....
So i think that either you have to take a huge risk and show him or even tell him how you feel......or just play along with how things are now.....
If it is just a crush.......wait a little.....you might fall out of it.....If you feel it is love.....think carefully and take some serious action.......
Good luck to you......
he does like you..and he will always have feelings for you...if i were you i would let him know by flirting with him a little, just a little though, dont put it all out there...
....work it...if he is interested you will know it...and flirting doesnt mean that you are desperate..
do you have a bf? that might be a problem.
You could try to look sexy for him and flirt with him like say hey big boy your cute then wink an eye at him and try to close your boobs to him so he gets amazed and start looking how cute you really are.
You both are confused about what youre feeling,just give your feelings some time to develope.
I agree with the first answer
Slap him back and tell him its a love tap.
casually say" I had a dream last night that u &i were 2gther. what do u think of that?"