after a few weeks of knowing ea. other he asked me to be his gf. I declined because 1 My parents don't allow me to have a boyfriend (I'm going to be 16) 2 I wasn't ready for a relationship yet 3 I wasn't sure about what I wanted.I told him the reasons why and he told me, he would wait.then after a few weeks,I noticed I was
confused about what i felt for him so i told him and he got depressed and confessed to me that i had been the girl he had waited for the most (2 months),that he was tired of waiting, and that he had several other girls ask him out but he had been waiting for me all this time, this made me depressed as well because i was hoping he would be patient with me.My parents
haven't met him yet,i was hoping I'd introduce them to him at my sweet 16 party.Winter Formal is coming up and i'm going with him as friends i was thinking about what i really want and it's to be with him,so i've decided to ask him to be my boyfriend on that day.my plan was to introduce him as a friend to my parents even though we would be going out and eventually my parents would be cool with him and let me officially go out with him.I don't know if it would work out though. What should I do?
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You need to obey your parent's rules. You live in their home. They provide your every need. Maybe you can talk to them about the age at which you can date. Ask them if they could bring it down a year. Tell them you really like someone and want to date him WITH THEIR APPROVAL. Ask if you can invite him over, so they can get a look a this guy. Maybe they are afraid of certain things people get involved with while dating. If they will allow you to date, ask what the limits are. If they are strict with you about no dating at all, that is something you will just have to accept while you live under their roof.
2 months is a long time to wait for someone? Since when? He sounds a little impatient to me. I'd steer clear of him. He pressured you and guilt tripped you, acting depressed because you were being true to your heart. And after that you've suddenly decided you want to be with him? He's manipulated you honey.
that would totally work. im younger than 16 and ive already had 3 boyfriends( each on lasted at least 4 months) and my parents were perfectly fine with it as long as the guy knew the fam well and were very polite. parents have to trust he's a good guy. it for your sake. so let them check him out for awhile i dont know why but they are so protective sometimes, sheesh! ha.
Do you really like him that way. If so there shouldn't be a problem. If you feel like you don't know him well enough, or don't trust him yet, then wait. Don't feel pressured by others, do what you want to do.
That idea sounds awesome actually. You should really take the chance and go out with him. If he's been waiting for almost 2 months for you, he is REALLY loyal and caring and you can't find many guys like that.
Good luck!
You should invite him to your sweet 16th birthday party and introduce him to your parents and tell them that you REALLY like him and he REALLY likes you and ask them if they will let you guys date!!!! (but before you invite him, tell him your plan and also tell him that you like him so he knows to wait a little longer for you) Hope i helped!!!
GOOD LUCK!!!!
You COULD have ruined it. not that its your fault, but sorry...
you should tell him you like him as soon as possible if you really like him, regardless if your parents know yet or not.
you caNT let the ones you like go.
so good luck with ur relationship :)
I think that, that will like totally work out great.
it sounds like an ok plan but make sure he understands the plan!!!!!!!!