im going out with this guy named jordan and his best friend connor likes me alot. and i like him to, but i still like jordan. me and jordan have a lot in common. and me and connor really dont. i have been going out with jordan since may. help?!
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my friend once told me: you always know deep inside what you want. it may not be what you need, but somehow you're always inclined to it. for a few minutes let it sink it, who do you want, don't worry about what you need. once you've realized that realize you are kinda involved with someone, and having feelings for someone else is a unfair to all of you. do you know that connor likes you that way? maybe you're liking something in connor that jordan doesn't have. anyhow, you should be honest to jordan and don't lead him on. say you'd like to continue to get to know him but not compromise into a serious relationship because you might like someone else.
Well, the first thing you have to think about is; Who do you like more? Connor or Jordan? Do you like Connor enough to break up with Jordan? If you like Jordan a little more or if you don't want to break up with him; you should keep it low profile that you like his best friend Connor too. Because it can get ugly if Jordan found out. You should just keep it a secret that you like Connor.
You're with Jordan. You're not with Connor.
You have a lot in common with Jordan. You do not have a lot in common with Connor.
Which one do you like more?
If you choose to drop Jordan and go with Conner, you are in no way wrong for it. You determine who you want to be with. But because they are BEST friends, you should consider the fact that if Jordan doesn't like what you may do to him and doesn't want Conner to be with you, Conner may drop you your relationship for his BEST friendship.
stick wit jordan, if you broke up with jordan and went out with conner, you'd break them up as friends. its a guy rule, dont date a chick your friend has dated, its just not cool to see the girl you were kissing last week kiss your best friend...
you've already answered your question
go with Jordan
tell Connor that you think he's hot but like him better as a friend