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Whether you love the second guy or not probably is dependent on more than him cheating on you. It seems to me whether he had cheated on you or not you might still like the first guy better. The grass is always greener on the other side though. Did you cheat on the first guy? How long was it between when the first guy left you and you got together with the second guy? If I were the first guy and I thought you had cheated and I left you and then you went and started dating a second guy I would see that as proof that we weren't meant to be together. It seldom works getting back with someone after you broke up with them and you were with someone else. I'm not saying its impossible that it could work with the first guy but it might not be as wonderful as it seems now for either of you. I guess if you both feel strongly enough than you can give it a try.

As far as the second guy goes, if you really loved him you would still love him after he cheated on you. You might be mad and break up with him but you would still love him. Loving somebody is not something that you can change or turn off because of something they or you do. Its just there. You can't control who you love. If you love someone it doesn't just stop cause they cheat. If you don't love the guy you are with then what is the point of being with him.

So to sum it up, figure out if you love the guy you are with or not. It is possible that you love both guys. But if you don't love the guy you are with than you should end the relationship or at least realize that it isn't going to go anywhere long term. As far as the first guy goes, if you are still with the second guy then you shouldn't be talking to him or thinking about him. It is not fair to the guy you are with. If you do break up with the second guy, there is no guarantee that things will work out with the first guy. In fact the odd are against it. That is just my opinion.

He left you, did he give you the chance to explain yourself? He left you based on a thought, a thought that you were cheating on him when I dont think you were. Imagine if he gets another "thought" and leaves you again now your back were you started here asking what to do. On the flip side you have a guy who loves you has messed admitted to his mistake and both of guys moved on. I am going give you a old saying that goes Never leave the one you love for the one you like" He cheated on you but he still stuck around the other guy didnt even know for fact if you cheated on him he left based on a "thought", Base your decision on what information I have given you. Good luck

Can you help me with my question.

Don't go for the one you don't love. You know how they say "follow your heart"?

Well follow your heart and go to your ex boyfriend. You two had been together for two year and were madly in love with each other. Don't trow that away.

Conflict always shows up but you gotta hold on to what you love. I know its not easy but honestly, go back to your ex. I mean the only reason he broke up with you was because he was sad that the woman he loved cheated on him (which you didn't) and now he must still be in love with you.

I think that you should consider going back to you Ex because you were in love with him.

hoho

i thinck yu must leave him(first)

and stay with the secund boy

once a cheater, always a cheater.