guy trouble !!!!!!!!! HELP!!!!!!!!?
well i asked this guy out thats in my class and he said he would asnwer me monday (tomarrow) but then friday nihgt my friend that i have known since 2nd grade and i said yes because i really like him but if that guy i first asked out says yes wat should i do?????
Update:please answer soon
Update 3:please help me i need help by tomarrow cuz i cant face this guy these guys again if i dont find out wat to do, and thanx for all u r help.
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You have to follow your heart. Call guy#1 up now... before Monday, and tell him "I'm sorry but something has come up and I have to rescind my previous invitation." He will want to know what's come up. You'll say, "I've struggled with this, and I have to do this because, I don't want to be dating two guys and once. I wouldn't be able to handle that. I need to find out where another relationship is going first." He will get the message... Tell him that you asked him out because he really is a great guy, and you really would like to date him if it weren't for this complication. Tell him you feel just terrible about this, but it's what you have to do.
Good luck.. You're going to have to break a few hearts along the way, but its best to handle these things quickly. They only get harder and harder as the relationship progresses.
You sound very young , but it also sounds like you care about the feelings of others ,this is very good. However you should not have said yes until you got an answer from the 1st guy. you would have probably have come out OK either way . Meaning if you were upfront with Mr. 2nd grade he would have had respect for tour honesty , and had more respect for you as a potential girlfriend ! And if he didn't then you are better off without him anyway . We teach people how to treat us by setting examples !!!!!!!
Tell 2nd grade that you had something planned b4, and if that works out, you won't be able to go with him this time