so we get into a fight and she completely doesn't understand me... she is basically telling me that she loves her xboyfriend still, and that's mainly the reason we haven't made the next step. i wished her good luck with him, and she gets mad at me because i'm upset. uh i think i have a right to be upset, its not like i was mean to her... but its my fault for having feelings? but its my fault, i'm the bad guy... i don't understand is this normal?

six months and we haven't been able to be in a normal healthy relationship because she is still stuck on her xboyfriend... but the moment i tell her good bye, she comes running back. i wish i didn't love her...