http://www.twitpic.com/dfldhk Almost every girl I ask rejects me so I must be uglier than a cave troll in LOTR that's why I'm asking I've also had a few people say grow a beard the thing is I would but i'm only 18 so when I grow it out it doesn't quite look right when I get a bit older though i'm planning on maybe growing a bit of a beard. Also why is everyone so bloody shallow? I have a great personality and I don't cheat or abuse unlike all those jackasses you girls seem to love. (obviously you love being abused) so why are you so shallow? at least I look like a man unlike some pretty boy jonas brother or justin beiber so why do you all overlook me? why? because i'm not gorgeous? in the words of lady stark from game of thrones "my love lasts longer" at least I don't want to bang you and leave you crying also im not shallow I want a girl with a great personality but im starting to lose faith as you all seem to be shallow people. I have asked this a few times and what gets me down is that I may get 40 answers and 1 or 2 girls will say yeah you're cute but the other 38 say i'm ugly and unattractive which really gets me down because 38 people can't be lying right? Okay I will account for maybe 3 people who are really guys being jerks and then a few others who are passive aggressive saying "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" but that leaves a good 35 people who think i'm butt ugly. I just don't get it am I truly ugly and unattractive? I mean that's a big number getting 40 or so answers and only having 2 say " yeah you're cute or average" I must be ugly then I just have to be unattractive I have to be all these people can't be lying. Anyhow girls and please only girls I'm not into guys so I really don't care if a dude thinks i'm fine. Anyhow girls am I cute, handsome, ugly, or forever alone troll ugly?
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I don't think you're ugly. And you're quite tall too. Some people are just judgemental so don't mind them. And you don't need to grow a beard,you just need to wait for the right person that will accept you and love you as you are. :)
This probably isn't what you wanted to hear but here goes... After reading that massive paragraph of self-pity, negativity, and bitterness towards humankind, I couldn't really feel what you claim as a "great personality," and I'm really sorry for saying this but the truth has to be said. After looking at your pic, I'm not gonna lie, you look okay. I think if I felt a more positive vibe from your personality, girls would find you more approachable. Think of the positive side of things more. Don't dwell too much on all the girls that have rejected you but try to enjoy your life more. If you're happy with yourself, you'll be more confident and people will like you more. Be nice and friendly to people. Smile more :)
I'm not overweight but in college, I was attracted to an overweight guy in my class. When I heard his voice for the first time, I started noticing him because he has a really soothing, deep, and mature voice. I also noticed that he had this awesome, sarcastic, dry wit, he seemed really smart and intellectual, and he seemed like a nice guy. So, that's an example of how different girls have different tastes in guys. There is still hope for you my friend.
Can I just ask you something, what kind of response are you actually trying to get out of this? Cause to me, it seems as if you are asking people to feel sorry for you. What you need to do is stop asking other girls if they think you are hot because that is just a huge no no. Let me tell you one thing and one thing only about girls and girls being attracted to someone: THEY LIKE GUYS WITH CONFIDENCE. You say you have a great personality, perfect, what you need to work on now is confidence. Start acting like a confident mother ****** and maybe the girls will start coming along. But don't try and prove your innocence to them claiming you're such a nice guy either... SHOW THEM you're a nice guy instead.
I'm not a girl but dude you aren't bad looking. Only going to recommend one thing though, start working out man, walking, running, hit the gym, whatever you have to do. If you lose that weight you will be so much confident and feel better about yourself. You can't tell me you like being overweight, so stop hating it and change it!!! I know I came off as a jerk but the truth hurts man and it's for the better
Well if youre saying it annoys you that 38/40 people say your ugly then dont ask this!
But anyway I honestly don't think your cute or hot, but your not ugly, everyone has inner and outer beauty. You should stop listening to what everyone else thinks as long as your happy
Youre not ugly! Start working out, change your hair style, get contacts, dress differently... Baisicly do anything to make the girls notice the difference on you! Then theyll be like 'Wow, James looks gooood' It doesnt need to be anything big, just small improvement :) and try to be more confident, chicks dig that!
Honest answer: get some contacts, work out ALOT, smile (get teeth whitened), wear nice clothes. Yea you might have a good personality but your looks are a girls first impression so make them count. Also be sure to shower and wear nice cologne.
after reading everything you said, i think you already have a negative outlook on things and if you already are jaded then no one will want to be with that. negative personalities aren't attractive. I don't think looks matter it's about the personality and if you're fun to be around.