I am not usually the type to have girl problems, but this is driving me crazy. I have this girl that I dated two years ago. She was my first love and all that junk but my friends hate her. She is known to use people, be mean, judging and just not an all around good person. We have both been rude to eachother before, and we argue pretty bad when we DO talk.
Now comes the question. I am with this girl that I love, we have been together for about 7 months now. But everytime I see that old girlfriend, I get all depressed and feel super weak. I feel like I stil love her, and it really hurts me. What should I do? The old girlfriend and I stopped ttalking for the longest time, but then she recently approached me to talk, and I said no. But then I just felt so weak and asked her how she was. What am I to do?
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Forget your old GF . Don't talk to her anymore . Don't see her .Change your path .
She will only give you pain and curse . She is a curse for you .
Be happy with what you have - your new girl .
Enjoy with her .
WOW! First of all you say you love your current girlfriend but if you would really love her you would not have these doubts right now. So I would say let her go or ask her for a time out, if she is smart enough she will understand what that really means. Don't be selfish and think about her feelings too!! She doesn't deserve a boyfriend who doubts about his feelings!
Second of all, if you broke up with your ex-girlfriend it was because you had a good reason in that moment, so think about that before going again after her! People usually don't change and chances are she is still the same "mean, judging, not all around good person".
Third of all, it seems you have never been able to completely forget about her so I would say if she is interested too why not going for another round?? Things might be the same but at least you will have a good time and you would be with the person you really like! Just keep the limits in mind so your heart will not be broken again :D Good luck!
Do you like your girlfriend or do you think something is missing in your relationship?
Maybe try speaking to your mates about this, how do they feel around your ex?
If you want to approach this ex make sure that your girlfriend is comfortable, you don't want her to be upset and rumors said.
Hope this helps you.
Mayb u just attracted to bad.......and from wat u wrote I suggest u stay with the girl ur with b/c the other one doesn't sound lik a catch.......(And Idk if u hav ever seen "why did I get married" by tyler perry but in the movie they say "don't leave ur 80% for a 20%.......b/c u won't get the 80% out of the 20%..........
decide who yu really like,.. !
dun fool yurself or yur gf(s)