Ok here’s the deal…there’s this girl I really like (duh, or I wouldn’t be asking lol). Anyways, she goes to my church-meaning I can see her on Sunday’s, the weekday morning church classes, and the Tuesday night activities. Somehow, she isn’t usually surrounded by guys (even though she is easily the most beautiful girl I have ever seen)…We know each other, and I try to talk to her when I see her. We get along ok, and she knows that in the past I liked her (I’ve liked her for 2 ½ years), but I don’t know if she knows I still feel the same way. Every month there are church dances-and out of the last 4 she asked me to dance twice (I asked her once), but I think it might have been just as friends. Last night there was a dance…and her dad being one of the youth leaders, hinted me to ask her to dance, which when I did she immediately said yes. So I really don’t know what’s going on, any advice on how I should pursue her?
Update:By the way, I haven’t gone to the morning classes in weeks because they are at 6 am, would they be worth going to?
Also-is there a way to find out, other than guesswork? thanks.
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She seems pretty keen. Try asking her out.
Ur in a sticky situation y don't u ask her if she likes u how hard is that?
u should find more ways to talk to her even the simplest things u can help her with even if it's just caring a box
as 4 the dances ask her to be Ur date so u can dance with her all night long and ask her on a real date even if it's just to study
if she says yes she likes u
if she says no i have something planned but I'll like to reschedule she likes u but she has something planned already
if she says no Ur not my type she doesn't like u or she's lien it depends on the body language if she's fidgety and says no she's lien and if she say no flat no movement nothing no nothing she doesn't like u
ok heres what u do u have waited 2almost 3 year what a littel more time take it slow time is everything u say she new u liked her in the past she never persoed right now she is so that means time is on ur side u need to show her u like her as more then a friend but not anofe to scear her away take ur time time is everthing no matter what guys tell u she like u or she wouldnt be going to the dance whit u right take ur time find out what she likes how she is thing of that state then just play it cool hope this helps later
OK, whats the matter with you? You liked her for 2 1/2 years, and you never tried anything? Ask her out!!!!!!!!! If shes asked you to dance, it sounds like she can atleast stand being with you and thats the first thing that needs to be settled before a relationship starts! So, you got that much going for you...now its time to finally make the next move and ask her on a date.
well this is tricky. us girls like being nice to guys, but sometimes they take it the wrong way. if it was a yes with enthusiam then yeah she likes u. hey i say you tell her about ur feelings again. maybe now she likes you who knows. things happen all of a sudden. yeah i think you should go for it and good luck!
I'm a girl, and the reason guys don't really understand girls is because girls have like 1000 different feelings. This girl obviously likes you otherwise she wouldn't say yes. Trust me I would know...I'm a girl. (duh) So anyways if you are real shy like tons of guys I know, ask one of her friends, or one of your close friends to ask her if she likes you. Its really hard to go face to face with someone you really like, because you are always scared the other person would say no. And if she does say she likes you, you can now admit you like her.
if her dad hinted you to ask her to dance, hen she likes you. ask her if she wants to hang out sometime.
Talk to her more, make yourself more available.