Ok here’s the deal…there’s this girl I really like (duh, or I wouldn’t be asking lol). Anyways, she goes to my church-meaning I can see her on Sunday’s, the weekday morning church classes, and the Tuesday night activities. Somehow, she isn’t usually surrounded by guys (even though she is easily the most beautiful girl I have ever seen)…We know each other, and I try to talk to her when I see her. We get along ok, and she knows that in the past I liked her (I’ve liked her for 2 ½ years), but I don’t know if she knows I still feel the same way. Every month there are church dances-and out of the last 4 she asked me to dance twice (I asked her once), but I think it might have been just as friends. Last night there was a dance…and her dad being one of the youth leaders, hinted me to ask her to dance, which when I did she immediately said yes. So I really don’t know what’s going on, any advice on how I should pursue her?
Update:By the way, I haven’t gone to the morning classes in weeks because they are at 6 am, would they be worth going to?
Also-is there a way to find out, other than guesswork? thanks.
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sounds like cute love to me. next time at a church dance maybe tell her something like, 'i'm really glad your here tonite.' if her reaction is good, then go for it. if not, wait a little bit. people change and maybe she feels the same. anway about going to 6 am classes-thats crazy to begin with-but you don't have to go. don't try to hard be somewhat flirty but be yourself. when you are yourself she'll see that you are confortable with her and how she sees you - it lets her kno that even tho she may not feel the same, your ok with that.
best of luck!
flirt with her a little and let her know u like her. like say her outfit looks nice or something like that. then if she gets the hint, tell her u like her still. i mean, what's the worst that can happen. it sounds to me like shes just a little shy. if u wanna see her go to the classes. if nothing it gives u an excuse to see her. also it will make u two have something in common.