Okay, we went out a year ago for teh first time and things didn't go well, throughout the school year we kept thinking of eachother than getting in fights. we both went out with other people and regretted it every time. finaly by the end of the year we went out again but had a big fight and broke up 2 weeks into summer. we went into this school year hating eachother, but after a month we started talking again i started to like her again but she kept going out with other guys and didn't seem like she cared about me at all. finaly about three weeks ago most of the school got mad at her for random reasons and it made her pretty upset (duh) but she was fne since she had a guy she thought really cared about her. well long story short he didnt and now she is left with very few people, i have stuck by her the entire time and i think she really can see that. just last night she told me i was different from anyone else. am i crazy for liking her? how come i still do and what should i do?
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Have you ever spent good and memorable moments together? If yes then remember those moments and most important thing is remember that girl's smiling face. You yourself know that you can do anything just to see that precious smile on her face. Just remember those moments whenever you meet her and keep your ego apart. Because in love there is no you and me, in Love its always US. So my friend, invite that girl for a date and gift her a bunch of red roses, then see a movie( a romantic one) and dine in her favorite restaurant. Just remember one thing when you do this, and that one thing is her smile for which you can do anything in this world. And when you leave her home just say that you can do anything just to see her smile and apologize for all the misunderstandings you guys had in past( even if it was her mistake). And if now you feel that fight can be started at any moment, just remember her smiling face and those innocent eyes by which she looks at you and then see the difference.
Sometimes people continue to love people despite what that person has done to them in the past. To me it sounds like you two have been pretty immature.
You will save yourself a lot of time and trouble in the future if you learn to let immature/untrustworthy girls like this go. It's nice that you have been a faithful friend, but love is different - you need trust to have a stable relationship.
Every great couple has fights. If you really like her just tell her and say "every great couple has fights, wanna go out sometime" (or somethin like that)