I like this girl in a couple of my classes. I know I don't really have much of a chance as she's more popular than I am and I'm positive she doesn't feel the same way. I don't know if I would go so far as to say we're friends, but we're definitely somewhere around there. Despite the above issues, I still want to tell her. The problem is, I'm shy to the umpteenth degree. I have some serious problems with things like these. Help me!
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The best way to a girl's heart is humor. That, looks (although nobody will ever say it, it's true), and personality make the best combo in a guy ever. Any two-sided variation of that is good, so start by being friendly. Then start making jokes and being humorous. Don't tell a knock-knock joke or a corny joke nobody would ever laugh at (e.g. Why did the skeleton cross the road? Because he didn't have the guts!), because that is a bit of a turnoff. Making fun of the teacher in a harmless way is okay and usually people respond to that. Just make sure not to overdo the humor and become a class clown nobody ever thinks of going out with.
Plus, you might want to play up your looks a little. Even the ugliest guys have a way of attracting people. Unless you're a foot tall with a nose on top of your head and eyes situated on your feet, there are ways you can be appealing. Unless you have acne, you can spike your hair with gel (the shine of the gel plays up acne). Wear slightly baggy jeans (not TOO baggy, because that just looks like a potato sack, and skinny jeans only work on a select few) and t-shirts from popular surfing companies, e.g. Quiksilver, or from Abercrombie & Fitch's men's clothing. (Polos are hot.) Sneakers: Converse, low tops (running shoes are strange), or Vans slip-ons in a nice un-feminine pattern or color. Glasses work when you have the hot kind, rectangular sort of, with the black rims. Like this (http://www.progressiveoptical.co.uk/images2/burber... ), except for black instead of plaid rims. Do NOT get rimless glasses or gold glasses, or glasses with thin rims. Or, all the better, get soft contacts.
There's the perfect guy. Hard to find, but there are a few out there; you just need to be that person for that girl. Good luck with her ... hope all goes well!
I would start with just getting to know her as a friend. If you're in classes together, try and make a study group or something. That way you have a basis for telling her you're feelings. If you come out of left feild with things, she might scare easy and think you're weird. But if you've been friends it won't seem so awkward. And don't worry about the popularity thing, she might be the most down to earth person you meet.
Well, are you positive she doesn't feel the same way? You'll never know until you find out. Girls are very good at hiding things so I'm pretty sure there is at least a little more of a chance at her liking you than you think. If you are too shy to admit your feelings, then you should find out people who are friends with her and just ask them if they know who this girl likes. If they don't know then you should just swallow all your fear and ask her yourself because the best thing for you and your self-esteem is to believe in yourself.
Do what you think is best. Good Luck!
oh i'm sorry! i hope everything works out for you and her :]...
i know exactly how it feels when someone is more populer than you and you don't even have a chance with the person.
i am shy around guys too, just like you are around girls, but i think some tips i could give you are to::
smile to her when you see her
say hi
ask her for help on a problem you're doing or on a worksheet
ask her if she wants to be your partner for a project in school
get to know her better
become great friends with her
and leter on you will see if she likes you back by the ways she looks at you and talks to you.
well hopefully i helped atleast a lil. :]
Sweet notes are nice
let her get to know you and like you through sweet notes you can slip into her locker