Ok so there is this girl that is in a bunch of my classes.
We talk a lot online and we walk to and from some classes together.
We also text eachother a lot.
We have known eachother since middle school.
I have always kind of wanted to go out with her but i wasn't sure what she would say back, but she always smiles at me in class and sits on my desk before class.
I really have no idea what to do in this situation so any advice can help?? preferable from a girl
there are like 3 girls that i really like right now and another that i am not sure about, but she is the only one that i could really see myself being with in a good relationship because i know her so well and she is really nice and cute
Today we were talking leaving a class and as i was about to respond to what she said she walked away and started talking with some girl that yelled her name out, and just completely ignored what i was going to say and myself.
Now i am not sure if she likes me or not so plz. help!
Update:If it isn't obvious by know, I LIKE HER A LOT!!!.
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The only way that you are going to find out if she likes you or not is by asking her. you should see if maybe she would like to go to the movies or something, and at that time you should tell her just what you have told us, that you really have been liking her for a while and that you think that you and her would make a good relationship. But first find out if she is dating anyone, and if not then go for it.
Alright dude...here's whats up. U say this girl and u are good friends and have known each other since middle school right? And that every day you see each other and talk, and she even sits on ur desk and smiles at u in class. It seems to me this girl really does like u, but is waiting for u to take the initiative and make the first move(most girls if not all are like that). But u can't ask her strait up "do you like me?" Thats gonna put her under pressure because she wants u to tell her u like her first and by asking, it's esencially in a way forcing her to make the first move. And ALL women HATE pressure. SO forget what the other people told u about asking her. Regarding the event of her walking away and talking with another girl and ignoring u, it's obvious she's playing hard-to-get. By doing that, yeah sometimes it can come off as a little rude, but just look at u...its working...or else u wouldn't have written this question. She wants u to chase her, and if what ur saying is true that u two have been this close for a while, then she's starting to play hard-to-get with a little more attitude. In other words..HURRY UP!!! But seriously u do need to make the move soon. After a while she'll take ur stalling as u not being interested the same way she is and then she'll move on. What i suggest is asking her for a casual lunch somewhere or something along those lines. Or even flowers someday between classes when u have time to visit followed by asking her if she would like to go to a movie with u friday night. And as for those other girls...forget about them because u even said it urself, that this one is the only one u can really see urself with. And thats basically because u have known her for a long time. If u have been able to keep a good relationship with her this long through friendship alone...that leads me to believe that a romantic relationship could really work well between the two of u as well.
just tell her how you feel! i mean really...what have u got 2 lose? I'm dating a guy that i was friends with and wasn't sure like AT ALL if he liked me or not so i told him and he was like yeah that's really cool because i like you too and we have been dating happily for almost 3 months and i think we will last A LONG TIME just take your own time with it...jus because she walked off doesn't mean anything they might have been talking about something for school and were partners or maybe even talked about u! but if you don't wanna tell her drop a few hints... ask her how her day was and talk to her like you normally are....things should pick up pretty soon!!!!
~good luck~
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Do u need glasses to see that the girl likes you. If she only wanted a straight friendship she would have let you know that some way some how. You need to tell her how u feel
bro, it doesn't matter if she likes you. That's what makes guys trip up. It's like, aight, I won't make a move until I know she likes me. What the hell you think girls are waiting for?
They're not always, ooh I like him, i'm gonna show him I like him so he makes a move. Sometimes they're just all, aw he's nice. Oh he's nice too. mmhm. dumdeedumb. Then they date some absolute jock dum bass. Why? Because he goes up to her, and doesn't care if she likes him. He makes her think he likes her. And she gets all, oh gosh does he like me? Then she starts wondering.
Yeah what's my point. my point is, who cares if she likes you or not! You DON'T want to go with the girl that likes you. You want to go with the girl that you LIKE! Find a girl that you like, and kick it in to instinct. That's how it goes. Show her that you like her. blah blah blah. even if she resists, she'll give in because how rare is it to find someone that actually likes you enough to show it? That you're friends with too? Don't say I like you, will you like me too? Just show that you like her. Say things like, nice sweater. Oh I like that color on you. Make her feel like she's attractive to you.
This aint a night club. Different rules apply. These are your friends. Just go for it bro. What the hell.
u can always ask her if she likes someone first. u can ask her other friends if she likes anyone. ask her out to a movie and maybe after that a dinner if dat doesn't work out then ask one of the other 3 girls that you like
if your in the friends zone i dunno dude but take a chance ask her out? lol ask all 3 out and make a date in the same place and same time or maybe an hour apart so you can change em up ahahahha j/k lol :P just take all three pimping it bratt brat brooklyn nY represent lol
Walk up and give her surprise present and see how she responds.
Well most likely if all this is going on then it's possible she like u!!Do u like her too!!??
"I have a hypothetical question for you: If I started to flirt with you, and you didn't like it, could we still be friends?"