Ok, I met this girl from my best friend of two years. After about 6 months of talking, we finally started dating. But then a week after this she tells my best friend that she likes him, and he texts me telling me this, only he likes her back. But my friend is so naive that he doesn't realize that he's doing any wrong by doing this. He even told me that he told her to break up with me. There's more to it, but that's pretty much it. I feel angry, betrayed, and cheated. I broke up with my girlfriend, but my best friend is acting very sorry. But im still so mad at him. But again, he is very naive, and doesnt really realize that he did something wrong. Should me and my friend try to work it out, or not? Because we have a strong bond and I don't want to just end our friendship over some girl if I don't have to. I told him that if he dates this girl, we're done. Is that alright? Or wut? I'm just so angry I don't know wut to say or do.. Wut would YOU do?
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If I was in your situation I would be very angry too, but I also wouldn't want to lose a close friend just because of some girl. Try to talk things out with your friend, make him understand the way you feel about the whole thing and ask him how he feels about it too. It will be much easier then for the two of you to work something out.
Well obviously you feel angry, betrayed, and cheated. Even if your friend is naive, he should not have done that to you. If he knew how you felt about her, then it was plain wrong to tell her to break up with you. If he does date her, dont talk to him for a while. Even if he says he's sorry and all that, dont talk to him. (Lets say a month & 1/2....more or less) If he's still reaching out to you, then he's a pretty good guy. Forgive and forget. But if he really is your friend he shouldnt go out with her OR he should break up with her. Tell the girl sorry to and explain whats going on if you havent already. Explain it and she'll understand. Who knows, tell her and she might not go out with him. I wouldnt.
Friends before girls... it won't last forever. If she ended it after a week, she's not worth too much :)
Stay friends with him, kay?
Bro's before hoes
Im saying this and IM A GIRL!!
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