I'm 13 and there's this girl whom I've been friends with around a year now, well we have A LOT in common and I consider her to be beautiful (though I haven't told her this yet, that'd be weird for a friend to say). Well last year I mentioned to one of my other friends that I liked her, well he ended up blatenly telling her and at the time she said that she only saw me as a friend, which provoked a slightly awkward emotion between us for a little while. We're still friends, but lately I've been changing my game up a little and I've noticed that she tends to treat me differently now. For example, she never mentions past boyfriends and doesn't treat me like a door mat, ohh and she considers me to be quite funny, as do most of my friends. I've also noticed that she gets slightly nervous around me and always wants to borrow my accessories (i.e. UK bracelet, jackets etc.). I need to get her seriously attracted to me and I need to find a way to tell her my feelings (do I need to go on a "date" with her or not)? I also could use more tips Hogwild, your help will be greatly appreciated! PLEASE HELP!!! She means a lot to me.
Update:I meant. Say excuse the hogwild part.
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Aww lol thats cute and yeah I think you did a good a good job of getting her attracted to you. Don't ask her to go on a "date" YET. Ask her to hangout somewhere like the mall or movies or just take her out to eat. See what shes like in person and if things would work out if you guys were together. But yes, I think she is starting to like you, good luck :)
13 is really young to date or have a girlfriend. I'm 15 and have my first boyfriend, and we have known each other since he moved into the neighborhood when we were 10 and we have always been close. My advice: be close friends for a really long time. The closer you get as friends, the more likely she will start to have feelings for you. Don't try to "make" her be attracted to you, you can't control the way she feels about you either way. Just spend time and get to be very close friends, and after that, if a relationship will happen at all it will happen then. Good luck, and don't rush into anything. Take it suuuuuuper slow, you're 13!!
it seems she might like you. you can always take a risk and tell her you like her. and you two can go out and watch a movie or something.
Your 13 what you know about love??!!
your alittle young to no wat love is i thank your just feeling a type of love for her... i would do somethan unexpected w her and tell her how you feel you got time to really show your feelings to her.. rite now just stay friends and see wat happs