ok here is my situation.
I have been with this girl for almost 2 yrs this upcoming october. we started out in h.s and thru our 1st yr away at college. we go to different schools so that was hard for us but we overcame it. we were each others first sexual partners and we really loved each other. she was always the one who was so needy and lovey dovey so i kind of took that for granted. she always nagged me about being more sweet or nice to her but i just left liek she was jsut nagging my head off. we recently had a small fight in which i said things i shouldnt of said and she instantly started to ignore me. she ignored me for about two days while i constantly called her and texted her but she never responded. after about 3 days she responded but she was very short with her answers and rude. but she recently began to text me and call me alot durign the day. she called me alot but always said that she still didnt know what she wanted to do and that she needs space. she is so up and down with her emotions one day she tells me she loves me and misses me and the next day she says thats she shouldnt be telling me that she loves me and that we shouldnt be talking. its jsut so random. i always ask to visit her but she says shes not ready. so we had a long talk today and she broke down crying and said that she wants a break and that she wants me but something is missing in her heart. she said its too late for me to start being so kind and sweet even though she likes what im doing. she said she wont talk to any other guys and that she doesnt want to have a boyfriend right now but i get sick to my stomach thinking about other guys trying to court her. she has always been a very trustworthy girlfriend but i cant see why she would be doing this besides trying to talk to other guys. maybe she really does need space to think about what she wants but i dont know wat to do.
what do i do? its so hard not to text her everyday and call her. i love her so much and ill wait for a little while but this seems unfair for me. i dont feel like myself at all i can barely eat and sleep. any advice??
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every relationship has at least one huge problem. from personal experience ive done with she has done. i wanted my bf of 15 months to show a little more affection because i would always be the one showing it. all i can say is if she needs her space accept it because you dont want to bug her to take you back, it'll make it worst as it is. if she really loves you then she would stick to your side. not talking to her everyday i know its complicated because again ive been through it. be strong and confidence. just remember that its worth waiting and if she does go back with you again then show some affection. be strong and stand your grounds. i know you can do it
Give her space..I know it's hard but don't text her or talk to her..When my daughter needed a break from her boyfriend she hung out with her friends and flirted alot,,,,my advice to you is to go out with your friends and have FUN!!! Also don't sit around and b so depressed!! When she's ready to talk to you; put her off a little while. Honestly by then you will not be so ready to go back to her. You will be wondering if it's worth getting hurt again if she pulls the same thing again. GOOD LUCK!
Okay ask her out next friday cause she probably be busy all week so try the weekend. Don't ask her out the first chance you get cause that would make you seem like your obsessed. Also find out when she has nothing to do on the weekends so you guys can have a date. If she keeps on turning down on your proposals for a date then she's way too busy for a relationship. Maybe she just wants to be friends cause she has no time for having a bf?
Just give her space like she wants. Don't call or text. Let her sort through all the emotions she is feeling. Let her miss you for awhile. She will contact you when she is ready too. Just keep your mind off of it. Go out with friends and do things that you like to do.
Sounds like she might be a bit depressed. You should just go to her house and talk with her, she obviously still loves you, but she is probably really hurt from some of the things you said. im not sure, all i can say is that she needs you and you should give her support. dont text her, dont call her... go and see her
try talking to her again and tell ehr that you are really sorry and that you take her out to a romantic place and some place that would make her really happy and to loveyou again with all of her heart trust me this should work out really good between you and if it does not let me know ok?
give he want she want
SPaCE
she'll be coming back
2 you sooner or later
just let her be the
1st one not you
after reading your novel i have decided not to answer your question. get some counseling dude
show her this.
do wat she sez give her space
could yu help me ? Please and thnkyu :)
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