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This is typical in all relationships. It doesn't matter if it is GLBT or straight. You might want to make a special weekend where you go out of town, stay in a hotel, go to some special resuraunts, and make it awesome. do some rekindling of the romance.

Take some brief moments sitting togething cuddling and talking about fun things you've done together and talk. Play some board games that require the two of you to interact so that ya'll communication opens up and you build stronger bonds. Go for walks in the park, stop in a nice quiet spot, take her hand, tell her how much you appreciate her, you love, her and that you want to spend the rest of your life with her and kiss her tenderly on the lips. Not a sexual kiss but a loving kiss.

Just some ideas to help rekindle some romance. Relationships take work. Don't bring in another person. That'll destroy it.

It's common, especially with gay men, to have open relationships. Maybe this could work out for the both of you. Maybe you need to just shake things up a bit by adding someone new once in a while.

Most people go thru this feeling, but just think if you go ahead and your partner found out. The amount of hurt you would cause would be terrible. However if this feeling is over riding everything else it would be better to finish with your partner.

Talk to your girlfriend and tell her what you just told us.

Just talk to your girlfriend about your love and desire.

Talk to your girlfriend!