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God loves you but, hates the sin. Homosexuality is an abomination to the Lord. You know that. It doesn't matter what the church or anyone else thinks. It is what God thinks. Why would you turn away from God and want to burn forever? I am not being mean or judging. I am giving you my advice. You asked us what we thought. I pray you make the right choice, which is God's way or the Hell way. If you have a problem with what God says about it. You have the problem with God's word not the church. You can't go both ways. It is one or the other. God or Homosexuality? Which one is more important to you, you can't have both. God bless you. I will pray for you sweetie.

Catholicism is a strict denomination of Christianity. You will not be looked upon kindly by telling your church your a lesbian. To be honest they would rather worry about your sexual orientation than if your having sex before you should or are at least having protected sex. The fact is you shouldnt let the church decide only something you decide.Do what you want because if that girl makes you feel good then stay with her regardless of what anyone says.

Love is good, the sex is not - it doesn't procreate, and thats what a lot of theistic denominations want.

And please ignore people who are more interested in your sexuality rather than the person you are (Dark Christian). They are not interested in you as a person, and should be thoroughly ignored.

He himself said that the "idea of a lesbian is hot, but a bisexual is so much hotter, and if it helps, he thinks its hot". The issue isn't whether it is hot - all he wants to do is feed his fantasies and score with girls who are bi for threesomes or something.

The church will not look kindly upon you should you pursue the relationship further to full physical intimacy. That cannot be changed, so you might want to find a different church, or keep it secret.

Either way, the road is difficult... I sincerely wish you would go somewhere else where your beliefs are retained, but the acceptance level a lot higher.

Peace

There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with it. Don't let a bunch of superstitious people tell you who you can and can't love; you should be yourself, and if you like girls, then people will just have to get used to it.

Of course, if you're 15 and just experimenting, I can assure that we boys do get wiser and more sensitive with age (at least, some of us do), but if you truly feel that you are a lesbian, then by all means don't feel guilty about who you are. If your church doesn't accept you for who you are, then perhaps that isn't the right church for you. Here's a good website that can give you the support that you need: http://community.pflag.org/Page.aspx?pid=194&srcid...

I don't think you would get as much trouble as two guys together would.

I'm not religious but they seem to be more against gay guys, and I don't think it mentions anything about lesbians in the bible anyway.

You should be ok but in any case it's your life so do what feels right for you.

I understand about what you mean about the same sex understanding more. I feel like that sometimes too. It would be great if there was just one gender with the best parts of both.

Well you are only 15 so the way you feel about this girl may just be a crush. Who hasnt had one on a member of the same sex? But whether you are a lesbian or not is questionable.

If you find out you are and thats the way you are well what can you do about it? Simple answer nothing much. God make you the way he did. As far as I know the only people Jesus condemned were hypocrites - people pretending to be something they arent. The church doesnt condemn homosexuals (lesbian or gay) but it condemns sexual activity between them. Unfortuately thats the real issue isnt it?

i hate to say this, but what you are doing is considered (and i quote) "an abomination in god's eyes". at 15 there is no reason for you to be even dating. if you are looking for love, look towards your family. let God love you. i have a saying that i use when giving sayings. are you living for the dot, or the line? think of your life as a tiny little spec. and then think of eternity as a never ending line. are you living for your spec of an existance that hardly registers on a time line? or do you want to live for your eternity? you have a choice. for now, i would say just forget about dating until you can live without being loved.. you can also go to this link that helped me in a time of need http://lifeofapinkprincess.blogspot.com/2006/10/be... hope i helped. and if you are just looking for love, then remember how much God loved you. John 3:16. 1 Corinthians chapter 13. look up at the stars in the sky and know that God made them knowing that you were going to look up at them at that very moment. be content with being loved by him.

Being a lesbian isn't wrong. If you love your girlfriend, you should stay with her. If the church doesn't like it, stop going. And those friends who say they'll stick by you are your real friends. You're very brave, sweetie, and I'm proud of you for being true to yourself.

My dear you are 15 and not married or expeccting to be any time soon. What you have is a good friend not a lover (unless you are already having any kind of sexual relationship then that would be fornication which in itself is already sin) Don't spoil it by putting labels on your relationship.

Enjoy your frienship and when the time comes God will help you make the right decision.

Awwww

All I can say is.

Even though I'm not religious, I would never make you feel bad for falling in love. What ever gender that may be.

Best of luck to you.