hey ok so theres two boys.
he first one is jonah.
at the beginning of summer we met at a farmers market we had a great time and we were laughing all night and it was just sooo funy, then he went to a summer camp for 10 weeks or something crazy like that and i just sorta forgot about him. then about 8 weeks ago at a farmers market he was back! we were hanging out alllll night, i thought there was chemistry there, i thought he liked me and i defffff liked him (he asked me for my number). then a few weeks later at a football game we totally saw each other and he was just a little d!ck to me, he wouldnt even say hi. the next week he said hi and we were having fun. then two weeks ago another game hes all bi-polar and unfriendly towards me. then tonight theres a game and hes all nice and friendly agian....totally my best friend lol. but he was sorta weird tonight, he thinks im a ***** (i thinkkk) because his friend gabe (who is boy number 2, i will explain later) is a dickwad towards me and i dont like him so im mean, and i think jonah doesn't like me for itttt.
then boy number two. gabe. over summer we met and we were freakin great friends, like we talked everyday, no joke, we found a way to talk. we were just hella good friends. then he switched from his old school (the big middle school) to a different school (the more small, fun middle school) and totally transformed into this biggggg stupid hoeee. and now he doesnt like me anymore and wont talk to me and is always telling me the MEANEST stuff in the world and i can honestly say i hate him.
so, for boy number one, what do u think of the situation.
and number two, what do u think of the situation
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ok so first of all, you totally shouldnt care what ppl think about you! these guys have some serious issues and i wouldnt even consider them "friends". i think boy 1 is just like playing games with you, not even serious about anything, and just wasting youre time. i mean are you guys like dating or just "friends"? i think the best thing to do is just ignore him and let him come to you.. maybe in that time youll realize that youre wayy better than that. and thatll maybe evn make him want youuu because he cant have you. someone that really likes you wouldnt treat you like sh**. besides there is 'plenty fish in the sea'. good luck!
I think both r totaly in love with u, jonah and gabe are nearvous around u because they totaly think that they should be that way, they just want u to think that they don't like u *_* i know what i am talking about. and i have two friends named Jonah and Gabe, they are not my age but i hang out with them anyway (there my guy-friends)
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For Jonah, I say let him know (on one of his nice days) that he was being a jerk those last few times, and that it pisses you off. Either tell him, or just act unfriendly towards him.
Then see how it goes.
For Gabe, I'd say just let it be. If he's an ***, then he's an ***. People change.
i think of of approximately doing that each and each and each and each morning yet then i think of of, "what the hell else am I going to do?" so i'm getting going to artwork. If I HAD something extra appropriate to do then this is a no brainer yet to call out and then do not something is a waste of my time, a unwell day (in case you have any), and an excuse. i would not beat myself up over it, the two. you're transforming into available a "comfortable, non eternal case of melancholy". the only actual preventative degree for morning blues is readily, furious, hungry- for- breakfast- as- the- risen photograph voltaic- glares- in- the- window, intercourse.
Find some new men who wont treat you badly.