ok so here is the deal:
so there is this guy who is really nice and hot and stuff and he is in the popular group of guys. so i always thought that he was different from them kinda, like less jerky and more shy. so i told him i liked him and he told me he liked me too. so the next night we played manhunt with a bunch of ppl and he was SO shy to me, and only me. but at the end of the night he kissed me 3 times. so now he NEVER talks to me in school but is always so nice texting and stuff. like calls me cutie and other stuff. now he always asks me to send him pics of me and like always want to video chat but its like weird between us (for me) so i dont like him anymore. i think its sketchy that he never talks to me in school and asks for pictures and stuff. so how could i tell him, or just hint kinda? is he sketchy?
Update:no no , im popular too so he wouldnt be embarassed to date me
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like you sed hes with the "cool" crowd and if he doesnt talk to you at school then it probably means that he doesnt want his friends to embarress him or sumtin. im in the cool crowd and i hang with my girlfriend all the time. my friends tease me for it but i dont care. and im always askin my girlfriend for pictures that just means he wants to see you. just go out with haim and if its uncomfortable from there then call it off. and no i dont mean "pictures" like that.
OK im sorry to tell you this but when I read your story I couldn't help but think about my relationship like that earlier this year. His name was Trenton and we sat by each other in almost every class and I had a huge crush on him. One day he told me he had feelings for me. We messed around poking each other and everything for about a month and then decided to get together in all honesty our relationship lasted about 6 days. He was a jock. We are still friends but I can't stop thinking about what could have been. I guess what I'm trying to say is to go for what your heart thinks. If you really like thins boy go for it make yourself noticeable and get noticed but if all you want id someone to flaunt then be prepared to get hurt. Either way prepare for the worst but hope for the best! That is my catch frays. But when picking your best answer choose the one that makes you feel as if someone answered what you were asking in all parts that you wanted to know. *e-hug* good luck with this boy!
Sorry to say hun but he's using you. If you mean "pictures" in the way I think, he's just like any other guy. Don't do anything you'll regret. On the other hand, he could just be shy so if you want to tell him, well then just tell him. Ask him why he does that and he'll probably tell you. Hope I helped. =]
Yeah he's not worth it...if wants to be with you he shouldn't be ashamed in front of his friends just tell him that and if he doesn't change tell him to take a hike!! Do not let him keep treating you like this you are sooo worth more!!!! Sometimes its not about how you may feel but what you deserve! and its sounds like you know what that is!!!
well, Your in a tough situation Chicky.
i think he's a super cool guy, Just because hes in the "Popular group" doesnt mean that hes a complete Butt. and I think u should go for him. and try to hang out with him at school or somthing,. it will help.
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if he is that nice to u.. u should just ask him straight-up, "WHATS UP DUDE?!" i am pretty sure he'll give u a common sense answer clearly he likes u a lot and since he is part of the populars, he probably doesnt want them to know that he is dating u, in the case, he is a jerk, and u should totally break up
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this happened to me too!!!
Its because he shy!! and i guess he feels shy talking to you, just go up to him and start talking to him like you do over text and over time he will get the picture! but dont break up with him, give him some time.
:) well first off you seem like a really nice girl...he seems shy,,,but if hes not too shy to chat to you on the fone...he shudnt be too shy to chat to you in school ...i think you shud mention it to him, an theres no need to hint it to him either. just ask him strait out. if he carries on ignoring u in skool then u can do better :) :) x
what KIND of pictures is he asking for? if he's asking just for a normal picture of you, maybe he just thinks your cute and wants to show off a bit to his friends.. if he's asking for nudes he's probably sketchy and just wants ***. maybe he's just real shy, about the not talking to you in school part. or maybe he's embarrassed to be seen with you or thinks your too good for him and thinks you'll be embarrassed to be seen with him in public?
is it just me or are guys just way too complicated :/
sounds like hes just trying to use you and obviously doesnt care enough about you to want yours and his relationship to become public. Hes obviously a jerk, so forget about him. There are other hotties at your school, maybe even some with some substance.