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It is possible that your boyfriend did hang around with other girls at the football game. Being a young man this is only natural and the younger he is the more natural it is.

It is a known fact that boys mature slower than girls so despite you being the same age he is likely behind you in terms of being emotionally mature. The human brain does not stop developing until around 21 years old and between 11 and 18 there are a lot of changes going on with the brain, not just the body ones which I am sure you know about, that can make it difficult emotionally for boys and girls.

It is possible that what you think of as being a boyfriend is not quite the same as what he thinks of. He may not even consider it a problem to be going around with other girls because he just thinks of that as fun.

Since you are clearly an early developer emotionally you are unfortunately in the position where you feel more like an adult than perhaps many of the boys around you. You will have to be more mature still and try to realise this and that what they do is not because of you it is simply the way they are right now. It is a fact of being 11 - 18 that relationships are often quite short but on the plus side another one usually comes up fairly quickly. Since you are more mature you are in a position to handle this better and so have some control over how often you have a boyfriend or even dare I say how many boyfriends you have. You may even meet a boy who is as mature as you and then who knows...

So should you be worried. Worry is a terrible emotion because it doesn't do anything for us, just upsets us. It does not change what will happen. You can worry all you want and your friend will still tell you the same things.

What he likely did was not to him very serious just fun but then he realised that maybe it was wrong. So you can do one of 3 things: forgive him his childish ways but tell him it annoyed you and he needs to grow up; tell him he is too immature for you and that it is over so don't come wanting cuddles any more or get angry with him and tell him that what he did was out of order.

That last one is likely to result in him getting angry and sulking which doesn't really get you any where but at least he knows (he might "dump" you though). The first two give you control in so much as you choose to stay with him or leave at least at the moment. Ultimately the only real control you have at the moment is to choose to dump him, he's too immature for you.

To give you an idea, I have a 22 year old female friend who has just dumped her boyfriend whom she's being going out with since she was 14; they'd even bought a house together. The fact she has only had 1 relationship makes her very inexperienced and so emotionally immature. She is now dating someone who is 35 because "boy's her age are too immature". (Although the brain stops developing at 21 emotional development continues through life).

This sounds confusing . Do you want to take your friend's boyfriend?