well im 14 years old and my best friend went out with this guy last year who this year.. i became really close with actually. we talk online everytime hes on and we are not shy at all online.. but in person, the only way that we talk really is like being bitches to eachother.. its weird. like hell come over and like bookdrop me and we will both be like hahaha and ill be like you little *****! but like in a kidding way. but online he talks to me about one of my best friends larissa who he literally JUST met and they barely talk. he thinks shes cute tho and shes on his top friends! im not even on his top friends! on facebook. but what he doesnt know is that i like him alot and hes soooo hot just like a hollister model, but we act more like best friends do.
maybe im too ugly for him?
sorry this is kinda confusing haha
Update:oh btw hes a junior and im a freshman
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Can't tell if your to ugly for him if I can't see you! haha. Nah only kidding I bet ur fine. I can only guess that you are stuck in the friend zone! He probably see's you as a sister or another male friend!
First of all, don't ever be afraid to pursue something you want because you don't think that you're good enough. The fact is, at your age, you probably both like each other and are too scared to say anything. If online is where he's most open, then tell him online how you feel. The worst that could happen is that he says he thinks of you as a friend and you continue on the way that you are now. I'd go for it!
You can't blame him for going after some other girl because you haven't let him know you like him. Give the guy a break, how is he supposed to know you like him if you don't tell him you do?
You can't blame him for liking one of your friends, and if nobody was friendly with people they just met, people wouldn't ever make friends would they.
As for this Top Friends business, i suggest you get that out of your head, it's only top friends on the internet, it doesn't mean anything!
Tell him how you feel, then you'll have your answer on what to do next.
OMG! I had the same problem but mine was different i was friends with a hot guy and he would tell me how much he loved other girls and i would lie saying i liked other guys to and eventually i told him i had something to tell him and told him i would tell him tomorrow....if u do the same and he bothers you all day about what it is there is a 30% chance he likes u.At the end of the day i told him i would only tell him a secret if he told me a really deep secret..he agreed instantly and told me he loved me!! So now we are dating cuz he made up all that stuff about other girls to get me jealous he might be doing the same with u!!!Btw he said stuff about my apperance to.
Don't ever put ur self that low, have u try talking to him and telling him how u feel about him and u want to be more then just friends with him. If he says no i cant do that, don't take it to the heart u will find someone that will love u and who will appreciate u. U have to accept other people opinion and respected don't ever put ur self at bottom no one comes before u take care of ur self 1st
Good Luck
Yes, I agree with you.
Guys can be that way with girls.
It's hard to decide.
Maybe he likes the girl more than you.
Don't worry about it too much.
I'm sure your very pretty, and he treats you well.
and for the myspace/facebook thing, you shouldn't worry about a lot.
I'm 14 too and I have the same problems, I've been through it all.
Guys can be assholes, just let him know online how you feel about him.
He might understand.
Hope that helps!!
well....maybe he likes you too. He just want to know that you like him first. Maybe he feels safer liking someone new cause they're easy to go for and wont refject him. He might also not want to say anything cause his friends might give him some crap because your a freshman. Plus maybe he feels like you guys are so close that if he tell you he likes you it will ruin your friendship. But you never know till you try. I think that you should tell him you like him but before you do make him promise you that it wont change ANYTHING.
It sounds to me he doesn't really know what he wants. Some guys really don't know what to do when they have certain feelings arise. Maybe he does like you, he's just trying to cover it up because he doesn't think you'd like him the same way.
Although, it sounds to me like he's somewhat of a player. Stay just friends with this guy bud.
No your just a friend and he don't want to loose you as a friend. If he went out with you then you guys would never have the same relationship again; if you broke up!
show him hints that u like him when u talk to him b nice still joke around with him and make him laugh make him like u!! ps.dont ask his friends 4 info cuz they will tell him and he might get a lil freaked out