i have a boyfriend. he used to be my mate but now we still act like mates and we dont hug or kiss or anything like that. he isnt shy because he used to act normall oround his old girlfriends.
im thinking of dumping him and just staying mates cuz then we still act the same and i dont have to worry about it.
i have another problem, i really fancy this other guy too!! he is also my mate, but he is going out with this girl, but they are always like dumping eachother and then going back out because she has got him wrapped around his little finger!!
i dont know what to do because i like him more than i have ever liked anyone before!!
thanx
ps. im almost seventeen, how should i break up with my bf if i decide to??
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Your probably just wanting to dump the one youve got for a new one. I would say you dont need to be with either at 17. Chill out and wait for a permanent relationship or you may regret it.
I'd let your bf go and just tell him that you don't feel that he's putting a whole lot of effort into the relationship. For the other guy, even though you have feelings for him and would like dating him, he doesn't offer you anything either. He obviously isn't comfortable with moving on so he goes back to what he knows he's already had. If he's wrapped around her finger I don't see any way of him become free anytime soon (unless you want to make an effort to make him yours)
Well....If you decide to dump this guy then dont make anything dramatic. Just say you think it would be better for both of you guys if we just stayed friends.
For the other problem, talk to this guy and see whats up with him and that girl. Maybe ask him out whenever they're in the middle of a fight.
Anyways.....Hope It Helps!
o.k just tell him u dont feel the same way anymore and break it off. And i know this is rude but mates are u australian and no im not trying 2 be rude im just curious. No ofence.
make your boyfriend jealous, use the other guy you like..tell your boyfriend how you like this guy because his sweet, he do this and that..etc..and if this dose'nt work out..dump him, just like talking to mate that your not friends anymore....
Say,
i'd prefer it if we were friends, becuase then we can have soo much more fun,
becuase with friends you'll have them forver, with boyfriends
they'll last for not very long.
xx
just say thats its not going to work out