Okay, so I talk to my ex-bf from time to time... Not often. He used to be like a best friend to me after we broke up. Then I met the boyfriend that I'm currently with. I no longer talk to my ex because he said so. He said the whole point of being in a realtionship was to make the other person happy. Well, what about me? I want to talk to him. He is my friend and Im not gunna go behind his back or talk to him. He said that I should do whatever I want, but that he askes one thing of me: to not talk to him anyone. I love him so much and i really want to make him happy, yet at the same time im like well what about me...? yeah know?

Btw: my ex smokes pot, skates, and is pretty much a doushe bag. Yet, when he talks to me, I can help him with his problems and stuff. But my bf doesnt understand that. He says to stay away from him because he's hitting on me and smokes pot!! ugh, help..! please! :D thanks in advance to anyone who helps!

SORRY this is soooo long!!