Boy trouble, guys n girls help!!!!?
Ok so Ive known this guy for a long time we talk everyday for the past year. tease him all the time. He also goes to church with me so I see him every week. I've sent him a few signals n he's flirted with me alot. I think I really like him. But he still hasn't asked me out wat can I do to make him ask me out
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say: "would you like to go out on a date." He will say yes. He totally likes you, but guys are shy.
I totally understand where you are coming from! I liked this guy for several months and we flirted and talked and he became part of my friend circle. Eventually I determined that I didn't think anything was going to happen and I just gave up on him. Not long after that, he asked me out and we have been dating for two weeks now :) He didn't ask me out earlier because he was so nervous too. It could be the same thing with this guy you know. Relationships take time to develop and become strong. He might like you a lot and be afraid that you don't feel the same way or that he will ruin your friendship if you guys become more close. Try to make him feel comfortable around you and drop hints that you want him to ask you out like, "I wish I was doing something fun this weekend" or "I really want a boyfriend" or something. If your not up for asking him out (which I wasn't so dont worry about it) then its just a waiting game. If he likes you, which it sound like he does, that he is just waiting for the right time to ask you out! It can be hard for a guy to do this, especially if he really likes the girl so try to not to get impatient. Waiting for my boyfriend was the best thing I ever did. It let us become closer and more comfortable before jumping into anything. Hope that helps, good luck!