I found out 2 months ago that this guy I like has liked me for over 6 months but hasn't said anything. He is a shy guy.When he told me he liked me I felt the same way. It took him about 2 weeks to ask me out after he said that he liked me. We have only been on one date so far, because of college midterms and work. On our first date, we ate at a pizza place and afterwards he took me to a fantastic view where he goes to just think privately, and it was a nice city view on the mountains. We mostly talked about everything from deep to silly things.
He is a busy guy with 3 jobs, and he says he hopes his schedule opens up more. He has called me a few times and we interact online since he is a busy guy. How can I tell if he's just busy or if he's just not interested anymore? With his busy schedule, it's hard to tell and I understand that he is a busy guy. I am just wondering because my feelings for him are starting to grow stronger and stronger
Update:I am just wondering because if he doesn't feel as strongly as I do anymore I don't want to waste my time. He has given me indications that he does like me, like the things he says that are really sweet. And, I last heard from him was a week ago. Also, I never thought I would meet a guy like him, that is an all-around great guy. But, he's been hurt a lot in the past.
Just wondering what you guys think. Thanks!
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you need to talk to him. he is the only one who can tell you how he feels.
it sounds like things are like this:
"We can all begin freely- a slight preference is natural enough; but there are very few of us who have heart enough to be really in love without encouragement... Bingley likes your sister, undoubtedly; but he may never do more than like her, it she does not help him on." -Pride and Prejudice
you might only have to reaffirm that you still like him, and he will reciprocate the feelings. but if might be beneficial if you explain you need him to 'help you on' more. or perhaps you need to help help him on more, especially since he's not only very busy, but also shy.
i really hope things work out for you guys.
Yes, you are over thinking. Women tend to do that about relationships. He sounds busy. Let it happen at the rate he can accomodate.
sweetheart he has 3 jobs the man is tired but if u think he's interested he probably is but give him alittle room because he's exausted.