I'm 13, female, and have been questioning this for a while now.
I will keep it simple.
1. I have always liked guys in the past, and always though of myself as straight.
2. I have been scared about being gay since I was little.
3. I have questioned this a couple years ago, but I had none of these feelings then.
4. I still like guys sometimes and fantasize about them, but not as much as i used to.
5. I have started to notice girls, but I don't want to have sex with them.
6. Girls turn me on sometimes.
7. If a girl touches me, like just by accident or something, and I am THINKING about it, I get turned on. and i just feel like telling them to stop.
8. I would prefer to be straight
9. I do love and appreciate beauty
10. My mind it constantly changing with my answer to this question.
11. I've never thought about doing anything with a girl until this point, but I have always wanted to like make out with a guy, and still pretty much do.
12. I have had boyfriends, two of three that i was actually interested in.
13. sometimes i wonder if i am in denial and i only think i like boys, and i am a very tense and paranoid person.
14. my natural reaction to a vagina is to look away.
Basically, I would like to know if I am in fact bisexual, lesbian, or if it's the hormones just messing with me.
Thanks.
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Okay Young Lady,
I am a college student and have came across many people. Some of my friends, (the girls anyway), have dated guys and had relationships with guys and one was even married. And they turned out to be gay. I know what some parts of society says about being gay, because i am but the thing is that if you re gay you just know it. If you can, talk to a councilor at you school or someone you trust about how you are feeling. a lot of times it is just a phase that many young girls go through. but just follow your heart.
I think you are bi-curious. Not completely bisexual, but if you mainly like boys, and girls maybe a little bit, then you are still straight, just open to thoughts about girls. I personally believe everyone is a little bi-curious, it's just the way humans are.
You're just curious, don't worry in your age it is normal to get excited to sex matters. I think it takes long time to actually realize whether u're bi or something else, it takes experience i guess. So, from your description, you're still normal.
your still young and u still prefer boys it's normal may young teens go thought this your most likely to be curious and starting to like girls later u might go bi
to me you seem simply curious.
it's not something you have to know right away though.
take everything as it comes and don't fret too much,
everyone questions, i personally am bi and i prefer girls.
it can be confusing, but the most important thing is just not to let it stress you too much.
if you need any help feel free to email me, i love helping people
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you are basically curious,
because you felt the need to ask this question, so that means you arent completely sure you are straight, nor completely sure about the other options. =] its okay, only you will figure this out though, sorry.
hopefully its hormones.. i will pray for your understanding of yourself and the consequences of anything that i hope your DON'T get involved in