This guy and I have been talking for just over a month and everyone knew we were "together" without the title. Well when I asked him about being in a relationship we were on two different levels. So I decided it was better off if we stayed just friends. We didn't talk much the week or so after that conversation but then he's been texting me again and we've hung out a couple times. We had sex a couple times the first time we were talking and I haven't had sex with him since we started hanging out again. Well sometimes he randomly text me saying that he made it home (We're both in college) even if we weren't texting at all that day or that his hometown team won or just to ask me where I am at. He has told me about how he was pretty much a manwhore in highschool and his sex life without me asking. When I asked why he tells me that he said "cause your my friend, and even if we were dating I'd still tell you cause your my friend." He is giving me mixed signals and I know he's been to the bar with another girl. I don't know if he likes me but wants to explore his other options too. And I know it isn't the sex he's after since I won't give it to him no matter how hard he tries. Any ideas?

Im not saying I don't want it, I just won't give it to him cause I know thats what he wants but he still continues to talk to me and hang out. example: the other night he came over to get some water and ended up staying the night. of course he tried to have sex and I asked if thats the only reason he stayed and he said "no, i wanted to see you" and I told him he can leave if he keeps trying to have sex with me but he ended up staying anyways.