Okay so I'm not sure which guy I should choose...so confused.
Theres guy #1, and well he is not shy, like I love the way he comes upt o me and we just start talking. He's really supportive in what I do and always encourages me to keep trying harder and better :). Which I really do acknowledge because its not like hes one of those type of guys that just wants me to be like he says so. He's really funny and its so sweet when he tries to be sweet since he is like hard-hearted (hard for him to be sweet). THe problem of this guy is that he does weed and sometimes drinks, and isnt the best student as skewl, but he has a bombing perosnality.
The second guy is smart, and kind. I used to lke him for 1 and a half years and then it started to fade because he was too shy to come talk to me or even say HI. I told him i liked him and he liked me back too but he was too shy to make the move. I understand him being shy but c'mon not even a hi. My liking for him has decreased and well as of now theres this teacher that is trying to hook us up which is like WUT THE HELL lol. He seems lik the ideal guy but hes just shy and i really dont like that, plus I like to have a little bit of danger in relationships.
p.s. im a 14 year old girl and both guys are 16.
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Your between a rock and a hard place.
Guy #1 is dangerous unfortunately. Although he has an incredible personality, his habits are self destructive. Increasing your proximity to him will reveal this other side. If you fall in love with him I'm afraid your bound to end up getting hurt. I really feel for you on this one, drugs make the sweetest people corrosive.
Guy #2 sounds like a good choice, but he lacks confidence which is not attractive. If you feel strongly towards him try flirting with him, or complimenting him. Perhaps you can offset his shy nature by encouragement.
The choice is yours. Between Guy #1 and Guy #2 however, If it comes down to Guy #1 I'd personally recommend waiting until a better candidate comes along.
I wish you the best of luck.
You will choose the bad boy plain and simple. Girls don't like shy guys at that age. It's imprinted in their DNA to go for the exciting guy. You will fall for this a few times before you figure out it just isn't worth it. I want you to keep this in mind; you can dress up a nerd and teach him to dance, but a player will always be a player.
Be careful with the age... I'd go for the second guy.
If you don't know if you want to be with someone, then don't be with them. It's not fair to those guys.
don't think too much,when you already make the choice,trust your first sence,,,