What would you do if your fiancee's ex psycho emailed him? He just got out of prison and right when he got out she called him and told him that she missed him and wanted to see him. He told her to go to hell but she doesn't get the damn clue. She doesn't understand that he loves ME and that WE are getting married. So how would you handle the situation? The email wasn't anything really, but she still needs to leave us the hell alone. SOMEONE HELP ME!!! lol...I have told her politely that he loves me and that she needs to go away. I will get nasty if I need to. It doesn't help that my friend is her cousin and tells her stuff behind my back. Do I email her boyfriend and then maybe he can beat some sense into her? Or is that opening up a whole can of worms and will start stuff? I need some insight...Thank you.
Update:He is a wonderful man who just got caught up in bad stuff. Not to defend him, but we all do things we aren't proud of. Some of us just get caught. In my defense, I have known him for 7 years. He was in for 3 of those 7. My boys knew him before he went in and they love him. She is the problem, not him. Thanks for the concern though, it's appreciated.
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Seriously, your fiance just got out of prison, his ex is a psycho, you want to tell her boyfriend so he can beat some sense into her......
What tangled webs we weave....
You may love him in your own way, but honey, he just got out of PRISON. Is this the type of man you want to marry? Do you want to raise your kids while he's in and out of jail? Honestly, look at the situation you're in and figure out if this is what you want long term because people don't change. The drama you're seeing today, will only be there tomorow.
My SIL had a similar problem. She sat down and talked with the psycho but I don`t think it really helped. The psycho ended up being right anyway....my ex-BIL ended up being a jerk after all!
There is a reason why she is psycho and an Ex! And remember, the reason why she she is like that may not be 100% her fault!
Umm, tough question. First of all love and hate go together, hard to hate someone you don't know. If you have a restraining order, why are you taking her calls? She is trying to make you jealous and its working, why? Because you have a 2 1/2 year history . If she made your life miserable as you say, change your phone # and make it unlisted. Move if you can, stop going to places where she knows you may be. AND report her when she violates the order.
Honey, I will say this...if the ex-girlfriend is a psycho and HE just got out of PRISON...you need to RUN...that whole scenario can't spell anything but trouble...I mean, really, what are you thinking?????