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ALLIE i woildnt WORRY about being lesbian. You said that you have always liked guys. This happens to many young people having CRUSHES.. Go with your HEART. Dont worry about LABELS at 14.

First of all, please don't listen to the guy saying "Don't choose to be lesbian" - we don't choose it! If I could choose to be straight, I honestly would, haha.

I think, it's probably just a phase. If you were lesbian, you would never have liked a guy in your life. You didn't really specify whether you've ever liked any other girls before. If you have, you might be bi. If not, you've only liked one girl and you say you only *think* you like her... then it's probably just a phase. You're definitely not a lesbian, though :) xx

It might be a phase especially since you are attracted to boys but don't fret over it. Whatever your leanings are will become clear to you in time. But don't try anything with this girl unless she is pretty open about wanting you too or you could get into an embarrassing situation that could label you a Lesbian before you even know what you are.

Awww Allie baby , that is soo cute <3 <3

U need to give more details. What kind of like?

I mean i like demi lovato and i would certainly act stupid around her cuz shes like one of my idols.

There's appreciate, like, love and "wanna be her friend"

U need to learn to understand ur own feelings. HOW DO you like her?

What way?

If u like her in a way u have like... Fantasies and dream of being in a relationship with her, wish she was urs and wish u could hold hands and L O V E love, then yes, u are a lesbienne. :)

You are only a lesbian if you choose to be. My best advice is to be heterosexual and live a moral life.

Take it easy its just part of growing up