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I would recomend not fooling around with ANYONE, male or female, while you're dating your boyfriend. If you want to know if a girl is interested ask her if she's straight, that way it won't seem like a come-on.

If you are serious with your bf, remember that cheating is still cheating, even with a girl. Why don't you want your bf to know? Are you ashamed, or do you think he'll think less of you? If you really want to try girls, I think you should talk with him about it.

As far as finding someone with whom to experiment, you seem concerned about rejection, so I would reccomend posting an ad with a service like eroticy.com or some other fairly anonymous site. You just say exactly what you're looking for, and girls in your area can contact you.

I hope you can resolve whatever issues you may have - I know how hard it can be!

Darn...I wish I was in your area...I would love to fina a woman who is Bi-Curious...I am a very accepting person and I would love to meet a woman like you...I want to find a woman who would want to experiment with ME as a woman actually...it might sound weird to some but to each their own...but I don't think you should hide this from your BF because if he finds out on his own or you tell him after the fact he will be upset that you did not trust him enought to come to him...trust me on this one...either tell him, break up with him, or do not act upon it...!!!

Cheating is cheating, regardless of what gender you cheat with. If you are having these feelings, and you know in your heart that this is something that won't go away - even if it's just a one-time get it out of your system thing - you owe it to your man to be up-front about it.

Okay first of all make sure you are 100% that you want to go that way.

Um you can start by talking to girls on line, try adultfinder.com or even myspace.

Or you can go to a lesbian club and that will make it alot easier.

Now about hidding it from your boyfriend I don't recommend it but it's your choice.

Well, tell him first... then maybe one day you can experiment with a friend, as something of what may be a laugh, nothing much really, many people try it, and its somcething common..

behind his back is cheating. even if its with a girl, if you do it without him knowing then you will be a cheater. you MUST talk to him about this. if he loves you like you love him, he will understand.

bottom line, if you do this you are a cheater and a liar and not worth his time or love. point blank!

Lies are bad. Sorry no advice on how to hurt your boyfriend.

start flirting w girls . see if anyone flirts back .