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Well, it doesn't sound like this had anything to do with you, but lets not get ahead of ourselves.

Lets break it down, and be rational.

1. You got the cold soldier from a chick.

a. You made plans.

b. She stopped talking to you.

c. You tried to reestablish contact.

d. She is in a relationship and thus unavailable now.

2. You are upset about this.

3. What is going though your head in regards to all that?

a. damn this hurts.

b. It is depressing.

4. Facts:

You never even dated this girl. You cold not have gotten played because you never had sex with her. What actually hurts? The only thing you were supposed to do together was see the movie. You can still do that by yourself or with someone else. What's to be depressed about? She is free to date anyone she wants and so are you. If another girl were to ask you out, even during the time leading up to your movie with the first one, you are permitted to say, "Yes, I am available." Until the discussion has taken place whether or not the two of you are single or not, date a way! You are friends, just having fun, nothing more. Has this woman wronged you? She could have had the decency to tell you she changed her mind. Other than that, she didn't do anything wrong.

5. What is a more rational way to view this situation? Take the facts into consideration only.

Yes we had plans, and my expectations were high. It was immature of her to change her mind without notifying me. Odds are, even if we did hangout things would have ultimately ended up this way due to her lack of maturity. She didn't turn out to be the girl I imagined she would be. Again, no way around it, I would have come to that conclusion sooner or later. It is safe to say, she could not handle the awkwardness of explaining this situation. Again, I can't blame her, she is immature. The good news is, I am free to find the ideal person I mistakenly thought she would have been. No hard feelings, we both did the best we could. No sense complaining, time to make new plans with someone else.

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If you talk to enough girls, you will find another you like, or even better one who likes you. Expect to be rejected 90% of the time. As you probably reject 90% of the girls you meet. It is a numbers game. The more girls and people you meet, the more likely you will find someone worthwhile.

Keep track and see for your self.

Talk to 100 girls. Expect 10 or 11 to want to hangout with you.

Get moving, the longer it takes you to talk to that many girls, the longer it is going to take get with them!

It sounds like you may be in high school?

In that case, date girls from another high school, never you own. That solves just about every hurdle right there. That way they can't ask around about you and actually have to hangout with you in order to get to know you. If the date doesn't go well, always remember to say, "NEXT!!!"

1 out of every 10. Keep saying that to yourself. Date the best, and the hell with the rest. Don't waist time being upset, just move on to the next. There is more than enough to go around.

I am a dork, even I managed to get married once I got out of college. Until then, do what I told you.

Best of luck.

she was playing two fronts at the same time and decided to go with the other guy? if what i say is true. then you didn't really miss out on much. she's trash

She just flirted with you; leading you on.