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first off you should wear protecting

but since you made up your mind....

yeah it will hurt, more of like a stinging cramping feeling. after the first time it might hurt the second depending on how long after the first time you have it.

you will be sore down there for a day or so but then it will go away. Be careful! there could be some bleeding during your first time due to the hymen breaking/ripping.

Because you've never had sex, you don't have practice relaxing your vaginal muscles yet, so it may feel a bit tense until you get the hang of how to relax and use those muscles. This is where the myth that virgins are "tight" come from - they aren't "tight," they're just not used to relaxing their vaginal muscles. If you're certain that you're ready, just tell him to take his time and go slow. You may want to get on top so that you can control the insertion and speed.

If your hymen is still intact, it will tear and you may bleed, although it varies. The tearing of the hymen will give you a stinging sensation, but it is temporary. It is not necessarily painful.

There are no physical changes that you will experience after unprotected sex except for possible pregnancy or permanent disease. I would strongly suggest you reconsider your decision to have unprotected sex.

if u are ready u should at least go protected for the first time , or go and speak to your docter , maybe go on the pill or something. If u do it unprotected you pose possibly risk of pregnancy , STD possibly .

If this guy loves u he will understand.

First time can be painful and you could encouter bleeding after for a while. this is usually on 1st time.

I hope you are sensible in your descision.

Ummmm... no matter how sure you are or how much you like or love this person, you should never have unprotected sex you may think that this person doesn't have anything but you could make a mistake that could last your whole life. Also think about what would happen if you got pregnant, Can you raise a child? I don't mean to sound mean but you obviously are not thinking clearly or you are not mature enough to make this decision!

unsure of how old you are the only thing i would have to say is please don't do this unprotected those consequences you talk about can and are very serious it wont feel any different no matter what he says it might hurt a bit but it will even if you don't use a condom so please protect you life. as far as what you might encounter after wards is you might bleed a bit and if you choose to do this unprotected it could mean lots of doctor visits trying to get rid of something he gave you and that is way more painful than anything else.

Go protected it's your first time why do you want to be foolish, and whats the right age to think its ok to go unprotected?since you have a computer look up the consequences again they do mention BABIES and STD's.

Ok so u say ur ready now rite? well if u wanna kno how painful it is for da first or second time then its alittle painful not too much but alittles it kinda depends on (not tryna be sick or anything) it depends on if ur tight or not. if u r then it does alittle but if ur not tight den it doesnt hurt as much. it wont hurt once u start doing it even more.

and it will be a big change in ur life. just make sure ur careful n dont spread it cuz dis is wat happened too me wen i lost my virginity da guy told everybody n everybody thought i was a hoe but i wasnt i rele thought i was inlove wit da guy but u kno... just be careful

It's probably a bad idea to risk getting pregnant the first time :P

Why not have protected sex first?!

don't do it........ gosh I thought I was ready and I totally regretted it once I did. I thought I was going to marry that guy.......boy was I wrong and I had waited so long......I should have just waited until I got married.

plus unprotected is totally stupid these days! YOu never know what crap you can catch plus you could get pregnant.....

well it hurts quite a bit the first few times. you have to get use to it because your skin is really tight down there. also you have the risk of std or getting pregnant. if you do not mind either one of those, then your set.