I think I am a lesbian?
I usually have a sexual attraction towards guy's, but in the recent month's I have considered both genders. But today I stopped liking guys, I had liked a guy for about 6months but even that attraction has gone. When I got home I started imagine being with a girl, kissing and loving her... I am have spent the last few hours trying to work out whats happening, i honestly think I could be gay.... but i am worried I am not and if i come out and then i don't find it with a girl then what?
Update:P.s, I dont think i am bicurious. I honestly believe i love girls, there's something there... 'and when you know you know'?
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You just need to experiment so you know exactly how you feel. Only come out when you're 110% sure what your sexual orientation is.
I think you shouldn't invest so much into a title, or label. Be who you are, and with who you love. Be that person male or female. I wouldn't be so worried about coming out when you don't even know yet. Play the field, weigh your options, and let things evolve naturally. If you're honest and comfortable with yourself, you won't really have to come out anyway, it will just kind of segue from how you currently identify into what you end up deciding you are. That is assuming you change your ideas on your own sexuality in the first place. Because you never know; you might just be going some exploratory phase.
Hopefully this will help you.
you will never know if you only imagine. What you should do is start to know girls. Go out and start to impress them, ask her to go out with you when you both have knew each other.
The important thing is experience.
Your at that age of being bi-curious, since you stopped liking guys you should try experimenting w/ the same sex
if you know you know :) try dating a girl ..
i knew when i had my first ever girl friend (ive never had a boyfriend) we would kiss and hold hands and cuddle and uhhmm "explore" with each other from then on i just knew :)
Sounds like you need to explore first before knowing if your lesbian.
Maybe your just bicurious